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The Power of Pain By any standard pain is powerful, but for a masochist, it is even more potent. Pain can unlock the mind, or shut it down. For a masochist, it can quiet the loudest of thoughts, and leave in their place the echoes of affection. Sadness, for most, will mean that they need to be held until the tears stop. When other women are angry they may need space to cool off. Perhaps when they are frustrated they need time to think and work through the problem. But that isn’t what I need. I need pain. For a masochist, for me, pain can heal. Do I want to be held? Yes, of course. I need to feel the firm pressure of your arms around me, and your soft words whispered in my ear. I need you to hold me and tell me that it will be okay, to talk me back to reason, and remind me that this too shall pass. But first, I need you to pull me over your knee and warm my skin with the touch of your palm. I need you to coil your hand around my neck until my sorrows fade to black. To tie me down and multiply my tears until there are none left to be cried. I need you to drown out my inner monologue with the floods of pain. Not because I’ve been bad, not because I shouldn’t be sad, not because you don’t want to hold me, but because you know that your hand on my skin is affection. Because you understand that the lingering heat, the sharp sting, and the aching marks your hand leaves in its wake, still my mind. They remind me that despite the storm, I am yours. Because you know that the pain tells me that I am loved, and some days the voice of pain is the only one I hear. pleasurewhore~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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1/14/2020 6:46 am |
Pain is a powerful teaching aid. With the right sub, withholding pain can be just as useful.
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I need pain to take me out of my everyday world and past. Pain is so freeing.
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ali The picture is lovely too  This is a wonderful insight into the mind of a masochist and shows how the mental and physical aspects of the Life-Style are intertwined A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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the pain reaches to your core with an explosion of feelings......pain turning into pleasure, pleasure turning into love and devotion
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I absolutely adore the way you describe this. Thank you for sharing.xx "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Lovely article. Fully describes.
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You write and express yourself so lovely, so heartwarming and beautifully. I most certainly get all of what you are saying, quite clearly. My only question is, why? Why is it this way for you? I ask, not out of doubt or controversy, but just to understand the depths of your needs and their necessity. Will you help me to understand the power exchange of pain? “Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”
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superb picture, again
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1/13/2020 8:27 am |
Very nice great story . Want to hear more
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A lyrical and evocative description, you state things clearly!
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hmm...
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1/13/2020 8:05 am |
Ahhhh. The deliciousneas of pain.
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An interesting perspective. I thing I would only ever flirt with pain from either direction - it is a foreign language to me, alien to my sexual vocabulary.
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I do absolutely agree...it is the prey/hunter game...there is no doubt..it is nature...That is the reason why it improves the level of pleasure..
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1/13/2020 5:50 am |
You learned some time ago that it is time that is the fool. That pain is not a thing you crave or want . . It is the time you crave however he wants. You crave the kind of love that requires you prove your worth because it proves his.
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Oh that’s good.....i think someone has an exceptional grasp of her own need...and who is needed to sate it....
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YOUR SO RIGHT !!!! PAIN MAKES THE SEX AFTER SO MUCH MORE !!!! WITH OUT IT SEX IS NOW VERY GOOD OR WANTED FOR ME.
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Lovely and Amazing. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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