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aliljaded 53F
23827 posts
1/29/2020 2:26 am
Why Submission?

There are so many gifts from a D/s based relationship. Each of us receives the gift of Dominance and feels our own submission uniquely. But, the most basic answer for me comes down to brain chemistry and wiring.

I kneel before Him, focusing on instructions, the sound of His voice. I feel myself slip into that submissive mindset and let the world become a distant echo until there is only Him.

BTW….

All that “boring structure and protocol” we follow daily is the necessary foundation and constant reinforcement of our dynamic that makes this mindset as deep as it needs to be. “It’s not all spankings and blowjobs!“

Every command has a purpose. Every submissive posture is a trigger. Every learned, practiced call and response quiet my brain. I become a canvas for Him to create what He desires. And yet, what He desires is my release. It never fails. My submission frees me to become that wanton, hungry slut.

But, my Vanilla world upbringing and my type-A “Barbie Fucking Badass” personality require His strength and the erotic pain he gives me.

“MAKE ME!” That’s what is required…

I need Him to make me: make me feel, make me crave, make me wanton, make me plead, make me confess my need for cock like my next breath…

There is a very real risk in the Vanilla world for any woman that lets that debauched greedy cum slut take over and drive her. But with my submission, He has command and control of me. I trust Him to keep me safe while “making me” that raw driven wild animal in heat. I trust Him to take His pleasure in His creation and still leave me a quivering, contented, wet mess.

So, I guess the better answer to “Why Submission?” is MAKE ME – because that’s what sets me free ♾

~a-ds-archive


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
1/29/2020 2:40 pm

nodding my head.....


jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
1/29/2020 2:37 pm

ali

I too agree with this

I think it is brain chemistry and a release ….


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


martinc2004 62M
145 posts
1/29/2020 7:27 am

That's great text.


docile_1_4u 65M
114 posts
1/29/2020 6:32 am

So incredibly well said. i have felt all of this for so long and so strongly. Slipping into that mindset is the most wonderful feeling.


1uncommondom 77M

1/29/2020 5:42 am

"Make me" creates
fear, anxiety, arousal,
and pain; all are emotions
and sensations.
They are neither right,
nor are they wrong;
good nor bad.
They are simply passions,
a most important part of life.
Feel them, fully experience them,
surrender to them, and learn to accept them.
True devotion and humility is
when you allow yourself
to fall in love with things
you consider will make you
look inferior, which in essence,
makes you superior when he
says, "this is mine".


gafferh 68M
308 posts
1/29/2020 5:15 am

Nicely stated...


aliljaded 53F
8947 posts
1/29/2020 2:29 am

Pretty accurate.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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