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Some Things I've Learned * You can be a kick-ass submissive and not own a single piece of lingerie * You can kneel in slip-on Converse just as well as you can in heels * Wanting to be wanted can lead to seriously poor decision-making * You can love someone and not be a match * You deserve as much pleasure as they do * Liars and cheaters will always lie and cheat * Not everyone likes the spotlight; it’s ok to live D/s very privately * It’s ok to make things like rope bondage and tickling hard limits; it’s ok to make anything a hard limit * Dominants can use a safeword or otherwise stop an activity * Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit * Moving quickly rarely leads to longevity * Your gut is never wrong; listen to it * It’s ok to not look like a fetish model; most people don’t * Sex can feel good even without orgasming * Squirting orgasms are a bit of a parlor trick, and they don’t always feel as good as other types of orgasms * If the effort isn’t there, in the beginning, it never will be * You can defer to someone and respect them as a leader even while watching Netflix and eating steak nachos with your fingers * Dominants can get sick and be huge babies and still be worthy of obedience and respect * Not every Dominant is an executive with an expense account * Submissives can make more money than their partner * You don’t have to say ‘Daddy’ to feel it in your bones * Toxicity isn’t gender-specific * You can’t always educate yourself out of raised-with-it bias, but you have to try * It’s ok to demand more for yourself; having standards solidifies self-worth * Strength is a process * Self-esteem requires active management * Submission doesn’t cease to exist when you’re single * Submission doesn’t just end when you hit 30 or 50 or 70 * You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do * You can change your mind * You can use your voice * You have to use your voice **Author Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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I love this lol
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8/27/2021 8:33 pm |
I like your points.
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ali I too would agree with them all!  ------------------------------------------------------- "Sex can feel good even without orgasming" So true..... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali I too would agree with them all! ------------------------------------------------------- "Sex can feel good even without orgasming" So true..... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Well written and very true
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That's another good one. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Hello, the list is very well put, very well thought out and most of all accurate. It should be required reading and understanding before getting into BDSM (call it bdsm 100). Thank you for the list and have a nice day...... Kisses Taylor "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Some great things to remember. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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And those are all true facts, a list to remember and live by "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit. The concept of being 'released' has always made me chuckle ... What a crock. Want to end the relationship? Walk away - It's truly that simple. Your gut is never wrong; listen to it. Truer words were never spoken. Amen and awoman! (Yes ...sarcasm). The list is a great one! Anyone new to the lifestyle would greatly benefit by being familiar with these thoughts. It would certainly reduce their susceptibility to the BS many wannabe Dominants around here spew.... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Very well said , also great photo "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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A very good list. And yes a squirting orgasme can feel great, but it doesn't have to feel better than other orgasmes. What I don't understand here is how someone can say that they don't agree that they don't feel as good as others (omitting the always in the original quote) after saying it is the only way they cum.
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Mmmm alil... A squirting orgasm is a parlor trick? What does that even mean?? The only way I cum is by squirting.. Does it shoot out like a stream of piss for me... Hell no; but it oozes out of me, or gushes out of me when I am riding my Dom.. I cannot help how I cum... But I disagree with your author about squirting orgasms not being as good as other orgasm's... They are fucking outstanding! Very nice new pic of yourself by the way...  ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Good wrathing
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8/10/2021 6:27 am |
Hello, the list is very well put, very well thought out and most of all accurate. It should be required reading and understanding before getting into BDSM (call it bdsm 100). Thank you for the list and have a nice day...... Kisses Taylor
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Some great things to remember.
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You do have some beautiful legs and feet there lady
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And those are all true facts, a list to remember and live by
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Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit. The concept of being 'released' has always made me chuckle ... What a crock. Want to end the relationship? Walk away - It's truly that simple. Your gut is never wrong; listen to it. Truer words were never spoken. Amen and awoman! (Yes ...sarcasm). The list is a great one! Anyone new to the lifestyle would greatly benefit by being familiar with these thoughts. It would certainly reduce their susceptibility to the BS many wannabe Dominants around here spew.... Make Women Female Again
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Very well said , also great photo
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Great List... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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