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aliljaded 53F
23810 posts
12/13/2021 1:29 am
D/s Or Abuse?



Both Dominants, submissives, and anyone else in the slightest bit interested in BDSM, take notice of the above and follow closely.~

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


palinax 59M
124 posts
1/10/2022 7:41 am

good summary of the distinction. thanks for posting


AlphaDom2022 57M

1/2/2022 9:33 am

Great information


CBLady 55F
28 posts
1/1/2022 4:33 pm

More people need to understand this


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:24 am



"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:23 am

    Quoting EvolvedEdge:
    That’s probably the clearest and most concise exposition of many of the what’s and why’s of SSC (and beyond) that I’ve ever come across. I hope you’ll decide to share it in other forums, as well.
Thank you, I thought so too. I'm thinking about it.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:19 am

Thank you, D.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:19 am

    Quoting  :

You're welcome.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:17 am

    Quoting Tckg12:
    as always everything you post is either important and educational for those considering this lifestyle, beautifully written, or thought provoking.

    Thank you so much!!
You're welcome, hon. You're so kind.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:16 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:08 am

    Quoting jenny14:
    ali

    I fully endorse your advice "take notice of the above and follow closely".....

    I hope this is widely read!

    A very powerful List!
I thought it was quite powerful as well, Jenny. I'm glad you thought so too.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/14/2021 3:07 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Great List, ali,

    And with some "d/s contacts", the acts become abusive, manipulative, just by lack of knowlegde from both side of the slash..
    And, a huge lack of communication...

    This should be a prerequisite, TO talk about, to knów!
    Before anything Kink/ SM takes place
Thank you, I absolutely agree with you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


try_your_kink 55M
20 posts
12/13/2021 2:52 pm


EvolvedEdge 57M
307 posts
12/13/2021 10:50 am

That’s probably the clearest and most concise exposition of many of the what’s and why’s of SSC (and beyond) that I’ve ever come across. I hope you’ll decide to share it in other forums, as well.


drmgirl622 68F  
26149 posts
12/13/2021 8:02 am

Great tips !


Tckg12 69M
2529 posts
12/13/2021 2:16 am

as always everything you post is either important and educational for those considering this lifestyle, beautifully written, or thought provoking.

Thank you so much!!


jenny14 75T  
90400 posts
12/13/2021 2:00 am

ali

I fully endorse your advice "take notice of the above and follow closely".....

I hope this is widely read!

A very powerful List!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11060 posts
12/13/2021 1:53 am

Great List, ali,

And with some "d/s contacts", the acts become abusive, manipulative, just by lack of knowlegde from both side of the slash..
And, a huge lack of communication...

This should be a prerequisite, TO talk about, to knów!
Before anything Kink/ SM takes place


wantingnoregrets 64M  
805 posts
12/13/2021 1:47 am

Excellent points. The abuse column seems to apply world wide with out regard to lifestyle


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
12/13/2021 1:32 am

The More You Know.....

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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