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aliljaded 53F
23944 posts
12/14/2021 2:52 am
What Is A Slut?

It is frustrating to see the term slut intertwined with submissive by those in the outside world. The two are not one and the same. A slut is a selfish creature, out to satisfy herself. Her desire is physical satisfaction and she is not selective in her partners. She may like the idea of being involved in what she might call submissive sex. But just because you’ll let someone pull your hair and you’ll get on your knees doesn’t make you submissive. A submissive woman transitions with time. She is resistant at first. She may be strong-willed. A submissive woman doesn’t want to be on her knees at her Master’s feet. She needs it; she needs to be there. A submissive wants to turn over her body, mind, and heart. She wants to give her trust and all that she is and her reward is his satisfaction and pleasing him. A slut has no interest in such things. A slut will open her legs to anyone for her own short-term pleasure. A submissive will open her legs only to her Master and will be loyal, working tirelessly to be his greatest treasure. You cannot be a submissive and a slut. The two cannot co-exist. The submissive is a beautiful creature, her Master’s muse and only his.

~greeneyedbeautiful


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


RavenousRaven777 57M
380 posts
12/14/2021 1:25 pm

Excellent, you painted quite a lovely portrayal of the true submissive. But, hopefully no sluts were shamed in the making of this thought provoking piece. We all have our ways.


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1550 posts
12/14/2021 7:18 am

Most men are sluts.


MasterBaldBeaver 67M

12/14/2021 7:13 am

A most interesting take on a single word.. making people think is NEVER a bad idea. Further I agree with those who have comments(quoted and unquoted) about it's use! Keep the blog post coming....


drmgirl622 68F  
26183 posts
12/14/2021 7:04 am

I believe that the word slut can be very erotic when said by the right person at the right time.


Artschoolgrad 47M
8867 posts
12/14/2021 5:36 am

"open her legs only to her master"

yum


aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
12/14/2021 4:09 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Hmm, my thoughts about being called 'a SLUT".
    It is mostly a word, vanilla men use to degrade a woman who makes her own choices, with bedpartners.
    Shé decide, whó she wants to fuck or what not,
    it can be empowering for women to be able to act that way.

    And i believe most men, who dont get fucked, use it to degrade a woman, so they can feel better about themselfs.

    There is most of the time, a reason why a woman does not choice that particulair man.
    maybe bad communication skills, maybe totally focussed on his DICK
    being ONE too~
    Maybe some anger mangement problems? too?
    / lack of selfcontrole?
    Or, most likely, just having a lot of women issues, women hatred maybe even..
    Who knows.

    Being submissive has nothing to do with being a slut.

    Unless he and she decided she is HIS slut.....
    THAT is something totally different.

    In these age and times, women have the RIGHT to choice who ever they want to choice, for their sex partners.

    Like some men do, all the time, without being called all kind of nasty words.

    I hate that dubble standard "thinking"!
I think what the author was trying to convey was just that. If I want to be "His slut" That's something altogether different.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
12/14/2021 4:06 am

It's a word. Period. The reason I enjoyed this piece was that it made me think. I guess it made a lot of other people think as well. And that's always a good thing.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
12/14/2021 3:50 am

Hmm, my thoughts about being called 'a SLUT".
It is mostly a word, vanilla men use to degrade a woman who makes her own choices, with bedpartners.
Shé decide, whó she wants to fuck or what not,
it can be empowering for women to be able to act that way.

And i believe most men, who dont get fucked, use it to degrade a woman, so they can feel better about themselfs.

There is most of the time, a reason why a woman does not choice that particulair man.
maybe bad communication skills, maybe totally focussed on his DICK
being ONE too~
Maybe some anger mangement problems? too?
/ lack of selfcontrole?
Or, most likely, just having a lot of women issues, women hatred maybe even..
Who knows.

Being submissive has nothing to do with being a slut.

Unless he and she decided she is HIS slut.....
THAT is something totally different.

In these age and times, women have the RIGHT to choice who ever they want to choice, for their sex partners.

Like some men do, all the time, without being called all kind of nasty words.

I hate that dubble standard "thinking"!


tastetester61 62M
1788 posts
12/14/2021 3:32 am

I can't believe how much the word slut is bandied around the bdsm world these days. Too many people have invited themselves into this realm with absolutely no idea of what it is about, nor any intention to learn. Just part of the fallout of 50 Shades I guess.


ridermantel 68M

12/14/2021 2:57 am

I agree. That is an impressive photo.


aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
12/14/2021 2:54 am

Love it.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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