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Mental Foreplay One of the great joys I experience as a Dom is the ability to control the tempo and intensity with which my submissive’s imagination travels and at what point her anticipation overwhelms her, sending her spiraling into a mental and emotional orgasm long before the physical one's ever manifests themselves. Mental foreplay long precedes the physical as our respective roles are established and positions cemented. This may involve low soft talk and the subtle giving of direction in both sexual and non-sexual contexts. One of my favorite methods is to quietly ask provoking and embarrassing questions or give soft subtle commands that elicit responses clearly delineating our positions; my dominance, your submission. In a restaurant, for example, I may ask the server if he thinks you look hot in your new evening dress. Naturally, he will agree to which I may “suggest” that you stand up and show it to him, commending you to turn around and let him see the back while I comment on how it makes your ass look completely irresistible. Naturally, ever the gentleman, I would then thank you and hold your chair as your return to your seat. I may ask you softly if you are wearing panties under your dress (you should know better) and if so suggest that you excuse yourself to the ladies' room to remove them. Naturally, I will insist that you hand them to me (over the table) when you return to your seat making sure that others can see the transaction. In a low husky voice, I may ask if it worries you that you might leave a spot on your new dress since you will be soaked knowing that I intend to blindfold you when we return to the room and slowly tease you into a frenzy, depriving you of your orgasms for hours as I turn your entire body into my playground. I may ask if it worries you that I may command you to please yourself, right here in the restaurant, under the table while I watch the expressions on your face. I may tell you that if you fail to reach orgasm right here at the table, I will be forced to take you over my lap and alternately spank and finger you relentlessly to painful orgasm after painful orgasm back in the room. Then, having set your mind reeling with a combination of dread and anticipation, I may do none of it at all, suggesting only that you finish your dinner, leaving you wondering what might be coming next and when. By now, if you are not wet and mentally squirming with anticipation, I have sorely misjudged you. But then, I know you well…I know how to press your buttons. Back in the room, you are all aflame and desirous and eager to be taken. But not so fast, first the blindfold. I have you present yourself to me on the bed, head down, ass up. I move around the room making small noises, leaving you to wonder what is going to happen next, when, where, and how. Now is the time when I can truly set your mind whirling in spasms of anticipation. I may brush back a wisp of hair from your face, the smallest touch magnified to outrageous intensity in your heightened state of sight-deprived arousal and awareness. I may trace a fingertip down your spine to your tailbone, leaving a trail of fire and cold shivers in its wake. I may slowly lift the hem of your dress, dragging the fabric tantalizingly over your bare ass until it rests upon your back, leaving you exposed to my sight and every desire. I may make you wait like that for a long, long time as I just sit back taking in the glorious submissive sight of you. But when the first touch comes, no matter where it is or what its intensity, you melt. All of the pent-up anticipation releases like a raging river from a bursting dam. Whatever tiny shards of self-will that might have remained abandon you. You are mine. Given. Taken. Owned. This is the nature of the mental foreplay of which I speak and so enjoy as your Dominant. This is absolute control without the need for restraint. You submit utterly and completely to my will and in so doing grant me absolute power over your heart and mind; long before I ever touch your body. This is the essence of D/s. This is the essence of us. © For The Love of a Submissive, 2021  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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The mental foreplay is a must. I also the waitress making more than the usual amount of trips walking by the table smiling while looking at panties on the table. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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I just love the mental foreplay.
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1/5/2022 8:01 am |
When I tug on her mind I awaken parts she had forgotten about. When she tugs back, we both find senses in us we'd forgotten about.
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1/5/2022 12:41 am |
very important that men need to hunt
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ali YES! The mental side is so powerful! Would you like to have dinner with this gentleman?  I would be very nervous  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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It all begins in the mind... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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