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I Don’t Need Him I don’t need a Dom. I’m perfectly capable of picking my own panties, making sure the chores get done and bringing myself to orgasm. I can choose my own bedtime, and I know when it’s time to see the doctor. I don’t need my hand held through every mundane decision. But I want it. I crave it, and I crave him. My submission isn’t about need. I chose him because I love, respect, and trust him. I can get by on my own, but I want more than getting by. I’m not satisfied with reaching the destination if I can’t enjoy the journey. I choose submission because it brings me peace, because what I want isn’t as important as what I need, and because there is freedom in restraint. ~pleasurewhore  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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He holds a special place in your heart forever. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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1/25/2022 5:41 pm |
For me the role of a Dominant man is to fulfill the needs of a submissive. It is his pleasure to do so. He has to be both knowledgeable and true in order to give her the freedom she desires through her submission to him. If such a dynamic exists it has to be with the right person. It is a reciprocal thing. The Dominant gets pleasure through her submission because he chooses so. He has to recognize her needs and he has to be true to that end. As you say, you must enjoy the journey. The dynamic and attraction of two souls must be a fit when together.
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"there is freedom in restraint".......I love this
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ali There is such a difference between "need" and "want"! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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1/25/2022 5:17 am |
Those who cannot evolve a world within their own soul . . will be evolved by the external world. There is no freedom in the external world . . Only in your soul where you understand the needs, the wants, the missing.
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A very familiar sounding feeling. And one that most men here do not understand. They think because they NEED a sub badly to feel complete, or maybe just to feel at all anything like an accomplishment or whatever, they think a sub needs them even more badly. No I don't need a Dom, but I do want a Dom. But not just any Dom but the one who wants to understand me too, instead of just looking for anyone to satisfy HIS NEEDS.
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Sometimes I still miss Him. 💔 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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