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aliljaded 53F
23807 posts
2/14/2022 6:47 am
Being Submissive

Being submissive isn’t a choice. You didn’t choose for your earliest sexual fantasies to include being restrained, punished, or controlled. You’re submissive whether or not you have a Dom or Sir or Master. You’re submissive even if you have a long-distance D/s relationship. You’re submissive even if your D/s isn’t 24-7. You’re submissive even if you’re alone with your thoughts. You’re submissive whether or not you fight it, feel good about it, or bad about it. If you are submissive, you just are. And just own it.




"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 10:16 pm

    Quoting Sucker4Ever:
    I would submit to those lips! Amazing photo of an erotic voluptuous mouth. Me thinks me's in love, and to think, i fell on Valentine’s Day! How apropos.

    Where was I . . ? Oh yes, on submission . . .I concur.

    Happy Valentine’s Day!
Happy Hallmark Day to you, as well.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 10:13 pm

Thank you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 10:12 pm

Yes, it does, D. Yes, it does.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 10:11 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm glad you could relate to it, Nat.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 10:10 pm

    Quoting jenny14:
    ali

    This is so true ! We are what we are! Dom/me or sub or even switch
Yes, it is, Jenny.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 2:38 pm

    Quoting jenny14:
    ali

    This is so true ! We are what we are! Dom/me or sub or even switch
I agree with you, Jenny.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 2:36 pm

    Quoting Suzy_Que:
    I went through years of denial. I associated dominance/submission with master/slave behavior, and did not want to feel inferior to my partner. I read, I listened, and I learned.

    Now I can proudly say that I am sub.
    And I own it.

That sounds like quite a journey. And familiar, too.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


bighappy08 54M
35 posts
2/15/2022 2:35 pm

Agree. Also applies to being dominant or switch - although that can get a bit more complicated. I have phases of both - ebbs and flows. Both sides have their appeal and I need both at different times.


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 2:34 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    It is what i am.
    As i am also a daugther, sister, mother, niece,
    It is what i am.
    WIth or without a dominant-master.
    It is my core being.

    It is not the sexual act of submission, it is much, much more.
    It goes much, much deeper , then just the physical act.....
    That is just part of the whole dynamic.
Yes, A mother, a sister, a friend. So many things, to so many people. I agree with you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 2:32 pm

    Quoting  :

"Never underestimate the power of nurture - it can divert us from our true nature." I love the way you put that. I concur. Thank you for sharing something I was thinking about but couldn't verbalize before my first cup of coffee. xx~M

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Gowron 69M
3113 posts
2/15/2022 4:30 am

I've had submissive fantasies since forever, but I'm only submissive behind closed doors, not in daily, public life.

It's as if I frequent two different worlds.


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/15/2022 3:35 am

    Quoting  :

First, let me start off by saying, thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I do not delete people's comments here because they may have a different view on something that I post. I agree with you on some of your points. Some I do not.

The message I was trying to convey was that I am submissive whether I am in a relationship or not. Whether I have a Dominant or not etc... I've been involved in this lifestyle for over thirty years and I do what works for me. I encourage people to play safe and do what works for them.

So, please be well and feel free to come back soon.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


jenny14 75T  
90392 posts
2/14/2022 11:31 pm

ali

This is so true ! We are what we are! Dom/me or sub or even switch


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
2/14/2022 9:19 am

It is what i am.
As i am also a daugther, sister, mother, niece,
It is what i am.
WIth or without a dominant-master.
It is my core being.

It is not the sexual act of submission, it is much, much more.
It goes much, much deeper , then just the physical act.....
That is just part of the whole dynamic.


Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
2/14/2022 8:40 am

I went through years of denial. I associated dominance/submission with master/slave behavior, and did not want to feel inferior to my partner. I read, I listened, and I learned.

Now I can proudly say that I am sub.
And I own it.


rondiri 65M
11189 posts
2/14/2022 7:56 am

Well put


domdaddy72948 75M

2/14/2022 7:47 am

Þy for the post


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
2/14/2022 7:20 am

I would submit to those lips! Amazing photo of an erotic voluptuous mouth. Me thinks me's in love, and to think, i fell on Valentine’s Day! How apropos.

Where was I . . ? Oh yes, on submission . . .I concur.

Happy Valentine’s Day!


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


ridermantel 68M

2/14/2022 7:11 am

Nice.


slaveforyou365 63M  
4518 posts
2/14/2022 7:05 am



Slave rick


drmgirl622 68F  
26144 posts
2/14/2022 6:51 am

It permeates one's being......


aliljaded 53F
8955 posts
2/14/2022 6:47 am

Just Sayin'

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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