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aliljaded 53F
23810 posts
6/18/2022 1:51 am
"Good Girl"

Two small words. One syllable each. What do I mean when I say them? Why are they so important to her? Why are they so pertinent to D/s?

When I reward her with those words, I am acknowledging the completion of a task, a job well done, and the fact she is abiding by my rules. Positive affirmation and confirmation that she is carrying out her duties correctly, and how much that means to me. How proud I am of her, for all that she does as my submissive. Positive reinforcement of her role.

A submissive will often have a very busy mind. She may overthink lots of things. She may question herself about whether or not she has done something well. These two words help quiet her mind. They comfort her, reassure her, and uplift her. They show that, as the Dominant, I see all of what she does, I appreciate and respect her, and her submission. I do not take for granted the gift she has given to me.

They are so pertinent and important because by submitting to me, she has gifted me power, responsibility, and trust. They are a way of thanking her for that gift, for allowing me to lead, for taking this seriously. They are a recognition of our dynamic and love.

Good girl!

~fantasies-of-a-dominant


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:07 am

    Quoting ridermantel:
    In the D/s realm what better spoken words from a Dominant to his submissive are there other than "Good Girl?"
I can't think of any.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:07 am

    Quoting Velvet_263:
    I love knowing I was a good girl.
    Those words mean sooo much.
I know exactly what you mean.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:06 am

    Quoting rondiri:
    Part of being a Dominant is "building up" your submissive. These 2 words do wonders to build self-esteem and fulfillment.
Yes, they do.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:05 am

Yes, they most certainly do.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:03 am

    Quoting bdsmDOMdaddy:
    good girl bad girl work together to form kinky girl!
Interesting perspective. I like it.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:02 am

    Quoting hardtop4you:
    Perhaps a dog needs praise,
    but she needs fulfillment and
    pleasing is the fulfillment
    of their soul. Just like you need
    to hear, "more Sir".
    There is no dominance without
    submission and there is no submission
    without dominance.
So True!

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/22/2022 9:01 am

    Quoting OlderMaster2018:
    Two words that are so important. THE most important words that can ever be shared by a Dominant with his submissive. A must to reward her trust in him !
Exactly!

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Velvet_263 61F
322 posts
6/18/2022 4:47 pm

I love knowing I was a good girl.
Those words mean sooo much.


ridermantel 68M

6/18/2022 2:56 pm

In the D/s realm what better spoken words from a Dominant to his submissive are there other than "Good Girl?"


rondiri 65M
11191 posts
6/18/2022 11:13 am

Part of being a Dominant is "building up" your submissive. These 2 words do wonders to build self-esteem and fulfillment.


drmgirl622 68F  
26146 posts
6/18/2022 8:52 am

Those words mean so much!


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4200 posts
6/18/2022 6:14 am

good girl bad girl work together to form kinky girl!


hardtop4you 65M

6/18/2022 5:32 am

Perhaps a dog needs praise,
but she needs fulfillment and
pleasing is the fulfillment
of their soul. Just like you need
to hear, "more Sir".
There is no dominance without
submission and there is no submission
without dominance.


slappappy 68M
24 posts
6/18/2022 4:07 am

I hesitate to make the comparison, but positive re-enforcement training a dog gives the same result, a loyal,friendly,whole companion who loves you unconditionally and needs nothing more than your praise.
Both my girls love to hear it


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
6/18/2022 2:17 am

Two words that are so important. THE most important words that can ever be shared by a Dominant with his submissive. A must to reward her trust in him !


aliljaded 53F
8961 posts
6/18/2022 1:53 am

I love hearing those two words the most.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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