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Talk To Me - Your Very First D/S -S/m Experience My first experience was with a gentleman twenty years my senior. I was nineteen at the time. We were work colleagues and one thing led to another and we found ourselves together one night. That night we "played for the first time". It was light, just a blindfold, but it was all that was needed for me to become hooked on that feeling. The feeling of being made to lie still, and be directed to wait for every pleasure I was given. After that night, we were inseparable. We stole moments at work. He would tell me what to wear (and not to wear) to work. What fragrance, etc. Just the thought of him would leave me insatiable. When I think back on that first experience, I think about it with gratitude. I felt like I interacted with someone who treated me with care. I usually don't share too much about myself, but I thought this was an interesting topic. I'm curious to know how people discovered this side of themselves. Thank you in advance for sharing. M~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Unfortunately, I still remember that unhappy moment in my life far too well. It happend to me when I was young. And I truely believe that the majority of submissives don't associate their first experiences with positive memories. Maybe I'm wrong, but that would be very interesting to find out. Sincerely, belle
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We'd been seeing each other for a couple of months. We were at my place and he was sitting on the edge of my bed. I was on the floor in front of him going down on him. He told me he wanted to ask me to do something special for him. I was not expecting it to be, "cross your wrists and hold them out to me"! I did, and he took one of my scarves and tied my wrists together.
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ali I started wearing my mother's clothes when I was 8 years old and imagined myself as a slave My first experience in BDSM was with a domme I met here  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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she asked me to lick her ass, and as I spread her cheeks and kissed her there, it was as if I was meant to do it.
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I think I've shared this before. My parents didn't trust my brother and I not to send each other to the emergency room if left alone. So we needed a "babysitter". The girl next door. One thing led to another, and I asked to tie her up. My brother made a beeline for his room. She thought getting tied up to keep my brother and I in separate rooms was a good idea, so it became the norm. I'd tie her up all the time she was there and there were no fights between my brother and I.
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I always knew that I was submissive deep down inside. Even as I grew in my Corporate career I had the submissive hidden and knew it had to be released.
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TY for sharing reflecting upon good memories of good people & times in your life is good reminder of where you’ve been all you’ve done & how you’ve grown...I always knew l was a DOMinate!
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9/16/2022 3:44 am |
At a very young age I had convinced a girl friend that she should let me brand her. So I branded her with the cigar lighter in the back sit of my fathers car. As it turned out it would be the last time I saw her for more than a decade. Running into her in an after hours club the brand was still distinct we dated some before I went to vietnam. Back then being determined to be sadistic was a considered mental defect an if diagnosed by a physician I would have been put in a loony bin. The times they are changing.
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9/16/2022 3:30 am |
My first experience was crazy. I had been having many conversations with my roommate, I didn' t know anything about her sex life or that she was submissive, but she recognized I was a Dominate after all the conversations we had been having. One day she burned and destroyed my favorite kitchen pan. I loved cooking and still enjoy it today. She came out to me, got me a beer from the fridge, and gave it to me. She profusely apologized. I accepted her apology, and she returned to her room. She brought a whip and told me she would feel better if I punished her. I was at a loss, I had never struck a woman in my life, and she wanted me to. She explained to me how to use the whip and proceeded to undress. She begged me to punish her so she would feel better about it. I obliged her she would eventually introduce me to my first sub and her Domme, who trained me before she would let me touch my new girlfriend in that way. Nearly 30 years later, I can still re-live that experience and those times in my head.
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good question. I do think it's something inside of us that's hidden and something let's us express it and then it's part of us forever. My father was very into corporal punishment. His motto was "low enough, often enough and hard enough and you'll be ok". At some point i realized i didn't mind the spankings. So as I got older i watched bdsm porn. But my first experience was with a pro Domme while I was temporarily living in LA, some 30m years ago. That's when pro Domme"s really existed. Now it seems they advertise on the internet but only want money no sessions. Anyway i had a number of sessions and then i found my first Domme. I had a 3 year relationship with Her before i had to move away due to my job. It was everything you said. She would tell me what to wear or not, we went to clubs and dungeons together. She was beautiful, respectful of me, and i did everything She wanted me to do with pleasure, even accept Her punishments when She felt the need. She taught me so much about myself. I MISS HER TERRIBLY. We still communicate occasionally.
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Thank you in advance. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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