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Listen Up The first time you sense that your relationship interest wants you to be weak, you should run. D/s, vanilla, and everything in between. Your partner should want you to be strong, steady, safe, and have peace of mind. Period. Submission does not mean weak or meek. Submission requires tremendous strength. If you feel disempowered, you’re not with someone who cherishes you as an individual - regardless of the relationship structure. Period. Full Stop.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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I agree it's true. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Very true. Lovely photo, too, as usual.
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This is as true as ground truth gets. As long as I’ve lived it as a tenet of what it is to love, it still brings a smile that warms and works its way to the center of my chest to see those words in print. Of all the ideas that are worth propagating when it comes to measures of healthy relationships, this may be the most important, as there’s so much that both underlies and follows from the desire for a partner to be strong through and through. Strictly as a matter of predilection, there’s also nothing quite like an offering that’s presented from a place of profound strength and stability, where questions of need are set aside and only desire remains.
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Could not agree more.  
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Very true
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Could not agree more. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Someone who truly cares, does NOT want a weak partner... weak moments, yes built on a strong partnership
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Very true. Lovely photo, too, as usual.
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Submission is one thing but being who you are is all important.
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Very true. Someone who loves you does not want you weak, but rather wants you empowered. How that plays out in individual cases can vary in great ways, but the principle is always there. If someone tries to make you weak and small it is always their ego that talks, not their higher being.
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The mental journey of submissiveness is a tug of war between a wanton soul and a sensible mind . At some point using the safeword or asking for less gives way to the ability to find more of the lioness. When you have endured, obeyed and conquered every command, cruelty and demand he has . . Who is the stronger will? Don't confuse leading with strength or following with weakness.
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The more you know... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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