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What I’ve Learned As A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s 1. I am not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s okay. Okay, ladies honesty time. I’m a bigger girl. I have thighs, hips, and a belly. Not everyone is going to be down with that. Those who do stick around are those who matter though. So what if you have a tummy and like to be tied up? I promise some guy somewhere will love every inch of you. 2. I don’t look like most porn photos. You know exactly what I am talking about. The photos that flood your feed, my feed, and even pictures you may have on your blog. Scantily clad women with svelte, slim bodies, flat tummies, skinny thighs, tight butts, and not even a hint of cellulite. Let me tell you a little tip though…NO ONE looks like that. Even the models don’t look like that. Photoshop is magic. P.S. This applies to men too. Not all of you have a six-pack, chiseled jawlines, and perpetually wear a suit…but guess what? You’re still hot! 3. I will get criticized for my size. This is no secret. I can’t tell you how many times I have been told I need to lose weight or “sorry but I’m not into fat girls”. Oh well, your loss. Trust me it sucks but as I said before someone will love your tummy, big butt, thick thighs, cellulite, and rolls. Someone out there thinks you are the sexiest thing to walk this earth. 4. I am just as sexy as anyone else. Plus size is beautiful. So what if you have a few extra pounds? ROCK THAT SHIT! Rock it so fucking hard! 5. D/s is for everyone! I’ve been told several times that due to being fat I will never find a Sir/Daddy/Master. This is simply not true. I have found a few. I’ve been into D/s for about 4-5 years now and men find no problems with me being plus-sized. Well, some have but they don’t matter. Whether you are a size 2 or 22 D/s is for you. 6. Not all littles are “little”. I myself am not a little, I have little tendencies but I have seen so many pics on DD/lg blogs where again all the girls are tiny and cute. Well, guess what you can be cute and little and still have a tummy. Daddy will love you just the same. 7. Porn is unrealistic so stop stressing. Porn is pretty to look at and fun to watch but we all know that it isn’t real. It’s a fantasy. It’s a perfect dream scenario. It can be a guideline and a fun way to get ideas but it will never be 100% accurate. Laugh at your mistakes and imperfections. Sex is supposed to be fun. If you have never laughed during sex you are having bad sex. So what if you can’t twist your body like that? You are a person, not a pretzel. 8. Beauty is only skin deep. Cliché but true. There is so much more to beauty, love, and D/s than what your body looks like. Men want real. Honest, smart, funny, loyal, etc. Yeah, a hot body catches the eye but a charming personality ignites the soul. 9. Love yourself. Another cliché but an important one. Take it from someone who has been there. Dom’s HATE when their sub talks down about themselves. It hurts them in more ways than you know. 1. It hurts because they love you and you can’t see that you are gorgeous to them. 2. They feel like a failure. When a sub is down on herself a Dom feels like he has failed her. A Dom wants his sub to feel loved, cherished, and important. If she is upset about how she looks he feels like he has let her down. Also, self-love is important because you know the saying “you must love yourself before you love anyone else”. 10. I’m a confident, sexy, beautiful, plus-sized submissive, and I KICK-ASS!!! Hell yes. I am plus-sized but so the fuck what? I’m hot as hell. I am smart, funny, sarcastic, strong, and one hell of a conversationalist. I am not what the porn industry would make you believe submissive looks like but I still kick just as much ass as those women do. No matter your size BDSM is for all. Be confident. Be sexy. Be beautiful. Stay Kinky. asublissivelife1993~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Curves are the best. Sticks, blah.
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I like everything you said
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Plus size woman are real. For me they are more fun to be with in every aspect. Rock your curves be proud of who you are. Live your life enjoy yourself and to hell with everyone that dont like or disrespects you.
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Agree wholeheartedly! Have had very few "skinny minnies" in my life.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Glad there is something for everyone in this post. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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from what I've read, you have a beautiful mind. I do enjoy your posts. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I have been involved with petite women and the not so petite. Big, tall , short, chubby or whatever, the size is not as important as what the inside character is and that they are comfortable in their skin. And I know I don't fit any image of a GQ, big muscles, washboard tummy, full head of hair, chiseled chin or any specific look. I have not always been happy in my body. Certainly not in Jr. High, High and into my early 20's. But I am alive and kicking. The sum of much life experience. As I have said many times, I have had a charmed life. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Give me "A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s ANYTIME over all the fake ones that contact me on here daily. Very good article. "Men want real. Honest, smart, funny, loyal, etc. Yeah, a hot body catches the eye but a charming personality ignites the soul." Don't give me a china doll that looks like she will break in half if you touch her. Don't give me breast makeovers and other "improvements"....just the REAL thing..... As stated before just give me "A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s ANYTIME"......case closed!   "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I have always enjoyed plus size. They usually laugh more, & have more fun with life than some wired tight ,judgemental skinny girl. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Great article  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Get to know me......that's all I ask "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Your body is made of the same elements lionesses are made from . . . Three quarter of you is the same kind of water that beats rock to rubble an wears stones away . . . Your DNA translates into the same twenty amino acids that wolf's gene's code for . . . When you look in the mirror and feel weak, remember, the air you breath fuels forest fires that destroy everything they touch . . . On days when you feel ugly, remember, diamonds are only carbon . . You are so much more!  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It's what's in the head that counts. PS: Very sexy photo. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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lotta stuff here truth honesty trust very important as is loving yourself! we all get judged criticized the people putting you down are only insecure w themselves! well if your pics are real lMHO you are not fat by any means very pretty seXY girl! there is a somebody for everybody & bdsm is not for skinny people it’s for anybody kinky! I see your strong w thick skin & can take iT...good girl! mental connection personality smart w sense of humor similar interests & kinks is what attracts me not their body type! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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this is so true "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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So true, counts for men too. In what playing around I have done, i have not experienced a well endowed man. I have met many that are 6 inch or less, but none that are 8 or big and fat. So now everyone can relax and put all the shame aside and just play. Just worry about yourself and, as you say, the ones that stick around. Sit back and enjoy, get out and enjoy. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The mind is the most powerful connection between two (or more) consenting people - the physical bodies only the canvas to map out the mind created pleasure routes. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Agree wholeheartedly! Have had very few "skinny minnies" in my life.
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from what I've read, you have a beautiful mind. I do enjoy your posts.
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I have been involved with petite women and the not so petite. Big, tall , short, chubby or whatever, the size is not as important as what the inside character is and that they are comfortable in their skin. And I know I don't fit any image of a GQ, big muscles, washboard tummy, full head of hair, chiseled chin or any specific look. I have not always been happy in my body. Certainly not in Jr. High, High and into my early 20's. But I am alive and kicking. The sum of much life experience. As I have said many times, I have had a charmed life. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Nice picture and nice Text
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Give me "A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s ANYTIME over all the fake ones that contact me on here daily. Very good article. "Men want real. Honest, smart, funny, loyal, etc. Yeah, a hot body catches the eye but a charming personality ignites the soul." Don't give me a china doll that looks like she will break in half if you touch her. Don't give me breast makeovers and other "improvements"....just the REAL thing..... As stated before just give me "A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s ANYTIME"......case closed!
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I have always enjoyed plus size. They usually laugh more, & have more fun with life than some wired tight ,judgemental skinny girl.
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The real beauty is on the inside. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Great article
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