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That "Thing" Some people say they just want someone to love them and to be loved by them in return. Apparently, that is their ultimate goal in life. God knows how many songs have been written about that exact subject. Screw that shit. I don’t want only that. If you want someone to just love you then get a puppy. I want so much more than that. You don’t just want love. You can love someone but not have a connection, no real deep intimacy. For some reason, you just don’t click on some spiritual, cosmic, higher plane, whatever you want to call it. If that’s not there you’re missing a big part. That love you feel is never going to be as fulfilling as it could be. But then you can have this amazing connection with a person where you are both on the same wavelength. Your minds are aligned. You almost know what the other person is thinking or feeling at any given moment. But there’s no sexual chemistry. There’s no desire. No lust. That connection will never be what it potentially could be. And we all know about those times when sex and passion are off the charts. You can’t imagine it could possibly be any better. You’re convinced that people should be filming you as you always produce some high-quality sex that the world needs to be aware of. But during those times when there’s no sex happening, there’s no tenderness. There’s no affection. There’s no real desire to make the other person truly happy other than physically. There’s no love. So there you have it. You can love someone but not be sexually compatible. You can be hot for each other all the time but you just don’t care about each other in that special way. You can find a soul<b> mate </font></b>type of connection but you don’t love them in the way you know your heart is capable of. So close and yet so damn far. This is turning into quite a positive piece of writing, isn’t it? I blame the bottle of wine that was inhaled late one night when this was written… So what do we want? Clearly, most of the world hasn’t really figured it out or there wouldn’t be so many who believe that their true other half is still out there somewhere but is not the person laying next to them in bed. Who simply wants more? I have no idea what that’s called but it’s more than just passion and desire. Way more than just an intimate connection. And most definitely more than just love. But you’ll know when you’ve found it because you count the minutes until you’ll see him again when you’re apart. You live for those times when you make her laugh until tears roll down her face. A gentle touch of skin in the middle of the night makes your heart almost burst with joy. And you can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off and find out how much more pleasure you can possibly give each other than the last time when you rocked the building’s foundations. Sounds like some kind of fantasy, I know, but sometimes fantasies do come true. If yours hasn’t yet, keep looking. That thing, whatever you want to call it, is out there somewhere… ~Dirty Romantic *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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2/24/2023 3:36 am |
Simply put,i agree with you.I WANT IT ALL! Maybe you?Too bad you are so far away.You seem like the woman of my dreams.
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It all seems so impossible Thank you Sir
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It sounds wonderful, but I am not convinced that thing really exists. Yet, we can all hope... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Always remember.....love is just another four letter word.....   "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Yeah, I've had all those first things you speak of...... Boy, Can I identify with them all.......  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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How often do people 'settle' and NEVER find "that thing"? 1242736  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Very well put, by Dirty Romantic? Yes, thát! Only rhat. The search continues, indeed...... Yes, the search most definitely continues. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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we all want somebody we can be ourselves w w o judgement makes us feel safe good alive inspired connected w a deep mental emotional spiritual seXual levels & shared togetherness  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I know exactly what you mean about "that thing"........ "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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True intimacy is a state in which nothing exists between two people ~ no space, no inhibitions and no lies.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Superbly put! If only all of mankind had this insight, thank you for reminding "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Belle wrote to me simply saying "To understand it, we had to find it first." "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Thank you, I thought so too. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It sounds wonderful, but I am not convinced that thing really exists. Yet, we can all hope...
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In the moment.
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Always remember.....love is just another four letter word.....
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1/30/2023 3:49 pm |
How often do people 'settle' and NEVER find "that thing"? This comment was BANNED read the following: "Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age). Feel free to submit a new comment." 1242736
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1/30/2023 3:23 pm |
To be one with,,,,,
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1/30/2023 2:27 pm |
Yeah, I've had all those first things you speak of...... Boy, Can I identify with them all.......
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1/30/2023 2:25 pm |
How often do people 'settle' and NEVER find "that thing"? 1242736
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Very well put, by Dirty Romantic? Yes, thát! Only rhat. The search continues, indeed......
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we all want somebody we can be ourselves w w o judgement makes us feel safe good alive inspired connected w a deep mental emotional spiritual seXual levels & shared togetherness
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I know exactly what you mean about "that thing"........
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True intimacy is a state in which nothing exists between two people ~ no space, no inhibitions and no lies.
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