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D/s & Kink So the thing about BDSM is that I want both - but I’d choose the D/s part over the kink part any day of the week. People talk all the time about needing to be beaten and fucked and all of that… And, don’t get me wrong, I need those things too. But I need the dynamic more. The two can - and often do - go hand in hand. But they’re not one and the same. And without the dynamic, I don’t want the kink. ~dirtylittlebookworm * I chose this photo because I thought it was lovely.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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this is great
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Damn that pic speaks volumes! Thanks for sharing.
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4/30/2023 6:46 pm |
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It's the Yin andf the Yang, the dark and the light, two parts that make the whole. BDSM and Kink are those, I like the cerebral side of it as much as I enjoy the physicality of it. It's a balance, once you have achieved that. you and the one you are with are centred
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Beautiful picture
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You can have the D/s passion, but the kinks must match the nature of he D/s passion. The kinks therefore should enhance and compliment the passion and not work against it.
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4/10/2023 9:02 am |
ASTUTE observation, always enjoy your posts, comments, and opinions. Your experience shines through, once again... 1246313
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In my case, at least, it’s pretty simple. D/s is and always has been an orientation (since long before I could put a label on it), not simply a proclivity. The kink and physical resonance happen, at minimum, in a context of the evolution of the exchange. Nothing else throws a switch.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Both! Both, Both! I cant surrender, without the other. First the Leadership/power exchange, And the Leadership dynamic over the kink... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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nice picture, it is art. Do you feel like being part of living art if that's done to you ? Just wondering. best - boh best, ~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Great pic....    "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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No, they are not the one and the same, and as much as there is that need to feed the body hunger, there is a much stronger need to feed my soul, and for that hunger, kink is not enough. So what I think is that dynamic would and is my choice above all choices. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The dynamic definitely fills a need. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Very much agree...and it is a lovely photo! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Very erotic......the thought as well as the imagery )) "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It's not the D/s or the kink we seek . . It's the journey, the Intimacy. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Yes! The D/s is the most important!Without that dynamic and trust nothing else will work.Wish you were living closer to me. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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i think the d/s for me is more important than the kink. i had thaat twice in my life and it was very special. wish i could have that again "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Slave rick "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The comment is on point and the photo is just gorgeous "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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In my case, at least, it’s pretty simple. D/s is and always has been an orientation (since long before I could put a label on it), not simply a proclivity. The kink and physical resonance happen, at minimum, in a context of the evolution of the exchange. Nothing else throws a switch.
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Both! Both, Both! I cant surrender, without the other. First the Leadership/power exchange, And the Leadership dynamic over the kink...
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nice picture, it is art. Do you feel like being part of living art if that's done to you ? Just wondering. best - boh
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Good choice, because I made a copy of this picture that I like too. And with regards to your comment, I only can agree in general, but for me both (D/s + kinks) need to be present to have a balanced impact to feel satisfied. So, D/s without the kinks is like food without flavour...and will not last long to keep me motivated. Greetz, Dom J.
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