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aliljaded 53F
23800 posts
8/25/2023 4:28 am
Being Submissive

Being submissive, to me, isn’t a choice. I didn’t choose for my earliest sexual fantasies to include being restrained, punished, or controlled. You’re submissive whether or not you have a Dom/me or Sir or Master. You’re submissive even if you have a long-distance D/s relationship. You’re submissive even if your D/s isn’t 24-7. You’re submissive even if you’re alone with your thoughts. You’re submissive whether or not you fight it, feel good about it, or bad about it. I’ve done all those things. If you are submissive, you just are. And just own it.

~Unknown


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


rosaenaluin 65F
11033 posts
8/26/2023 4:09 pm

This!
Without a dominant or master, submissive/ submission is what is in you!

It does not have anything to do, with a bad family life, or abuse, or such stupid talk, from people who really dont understand the core of a submissive person.

It was in me, even before i was born, like the colour of my eyes, is it part of who i am.
It is who and what i am,
Also, without a dominant/master/sadist.

Thank you so much!! for this great piece of writing!!


Bucketmaker 60M
67 posts
8/26/2023 3:52 am

It’s almost exactly the same when identifying as a dominant, sadists are mostly born or made, dominants have a slower awakening through experiences and a need for sharing and fulfilment.


Daddyslife 55M
57 posts
8/25/2023 7:50 pm

born into us


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
8/25/2023 10:21 am

We don't decide to be submissive.
We find out we are.

And we'll remain unfulfilled if we try to ignore our true nature.


drmgirl622 68F  
26123 posts
8/25/2023 6:42 am

The submissive nature is inborn......


lwbtmboy 59M
660 posts
8/25/2023 6:39 am

AMEN


slaveforyou365 63M  
4515 posts
8/25/2023 6:07 am


Slave rick


BldBvrsareGr8 67M
259 posts
8/25/2023 6:03 am

A most informative posting.. for those who are submissive.. and those who like subs As far as that photo WOW that is stunning!!


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4178 posts
8/25/2023 5:57 am

roles are discovered & assumed early on...you are what you are embrace it!


likeithot19 62M
6064 posts
8/25/2023 5:26 am

love the picture!


uncommon1 66M  
1446 posts
8/25/2023 5:20 am

We don't choose this way, off
the beaten path. It choose us.
It can feel like a curse. You can
keep your demons secret, ignore
them an pretend they aren't there . .
But your kink is your destiny, an a
destiny denied, is a reality unfulfilled.
You will never be free, of the
restlessness in your soul, until you
learn to dance with your own demons.


aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
8/25/2023 4:37 am

Spot on.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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