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The Art Of Kissing Have you ever had the type of kiss that just takes your breath away and makes you ache for more? Or perhaps it was a wet sloppy one that made you think they mistook you for an ice cream cone? I guess I find my thoughts roaming today on those exquisite kisses that had my heart racing that I could feel that quiver in the pit of my stomach making me not able to think straight it just was completely about him and that hunger for the next kiss. Yes, it can be addictive!!! What is it that makes that kiss so amazing? Pressure? Technique? Energy? So I went looking today reading others' thoughts and ideas and found this which I thought I would share: Here are six extra sensual kissing techniques for your kissing pleasure in 2017. #1 Make your lover yearn for your lips. Begin by allowing your lips to linger in front of your lover’s lips. Breathe. Feel your lover’s gentle breath linger over your lips and into and around your mouth. Take time to feel the subtle energy between you—enjoy the stillness and silence. Do not rush. Build up the yearning. Resist the temptation to bring your lips together and pull away when you feel your partner wanting you. Make them beg silently for the taste and sound of your kiss. And then, when you are ready, brush your lips up against theirs, but only slightly, giving them a taste of what’s to come. #2 Go super slow. Now that you’ve mastered the art of the linger, you can progress into slow kissing. Remember, kissing is quite possibly one of the most sensual and exquisite sexual acts that exist, therefore, I encourage you not to rush. Instead slow your kissing down to an excruciatingly slow pace, eventually building it up to a deeper and more intense experience. Do not introduce the tongue straight away, begin with small slow kisses (remember to breathe, don’t hold your breath). Explore your lover’s lips. Taste them in every cell of your body. Go slowly, so slowly that you feel your partner wanting more, but know you have all the time in the world to build up the intensity. #3 Breathe. Using your breath during kissing allows the sexual energy to flow up through your body and chakras, eventually syncing with each other to create a beautiful flow of sexual energy that connects you at a deeper level. There’s no special breathing. Simply don’t hold your breath and when you feel it’s getting unbearably hot (and you’re so turned on you can’t stand it anymore), imagine that you are breathing the sexual energy up from your sex center (the area at your cock or pussy) and into your heart and consciousness. This is a simple practice that allows for the energy to flow through your entire body, connecting you with your lover at all three centers (not just your sex center). #4 Alternate between slow and sensual, and hard and rough. Now that you’ve mastered the art of slow kissing and things are getting hot and heavy, it’s time to alternate between slow kissing and firmer kissing. Introduce a harder, sexier, more predatory kiss. Perhaps you gently scratch your lover’s back while your tongue enters their mouth with more force. Perhaps your breathing is deeper, and your sounds are louder (yes, the sound is welcome during kissing). Perhaps you gently bite your lover’s lip, or you bite their neck, bringing out your wild woman/warrior who has a deep yearning to f*CK your partner. Alternate between this style of kissing, the yearning and lingering, and the slow kissing. #5 Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact. There is nothing sexier than a lover who looks you in the eyes and can hold your gaze. Not everyone is comfortable with this, so if the thought of it makes you cringe, I suggest you begin to get comfortable with it because eye contact is crucial for mind-blowing sensual kissing and sex. So, if you feel like the kissing is getting increasingly hot and heavy, and you want to slow down, slowly pull away, open your eyes, and wait for your lover to do the same. Now hold their gaze, and be truly present with each other. Simple eye gazing can bring about orgasm without any touching or kissing—it’s such a powerful and beautiful way of connecting and a true form of intimacy. Also, try kissing with your eyes open, this is one of the most erotic and sensual ways to connect. #6 Use sound. Don’t be afraid to make sounds when you are kissing. Sound activates our body so when we allow ourselves to let go and breathe, the sound of kissing is beautiful, erotic, and even more powerful. You may also find that slow, intimate kissing can bring about orgasm—and orgasm is even more powerful when sound is used as a form of expression. So let loose with the sound. ~ For many women I have spoken to they will say they can tell you they know in the first kiss whether it will be a good match or not. Can they take your breath away? And if they are a bad kisser what then? Is it a make-or-break issue? Sits back with a smile on my lips thinking of the amazing kisses that took my breath away...Mmmmm *Author Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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this is a great post. makes one think about how they kiss and how there partner is appreciating and participating in the kiss. thanks  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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A good read! I've always felt kissing is a very subjective activity. What I mean is that what one person may enjoy in kissing may not be the same for someone else. There are some objectively good and bad techniques. Many folks may enjoy a hot breath on the neck and ear. Some may enjoy a nibble or suction on the earlobe. But I've never met someone who wants their ear canal invaded by a wet tongue. Maybe my sample size is too small? But I do know a lot of what some may consider "bad" kissing technique comes down to mouth size, preferred aggressiveness, preferred tongue use, etc. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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"This day and age we're living in Gives cause for apprehension, With speed and new invention And things like fourth dimension. Yet we get a trifle weary With mr. einstein's theory, So we must get down to earth at times: Relax, relieve the tension. And no matter what the progress Or what may yet be proved, The simple facts of life are such They cannot be removed. Refrain You must remember this, A kiss is still a kiss, A sigh is just a sigh; The fundamental things apply, As time goes by. And when two lovers woo, They still say, "I love you," On that you can rely; No matter what the future brings, As time goes by. Moonlight and love songs never out of date, Hearts full of passion, jealousy, and hate; Woman needs man and man must have his mate, That no one can deny. It's still the same old story, A fight for love and glory, A case of do or die; The world will always welcome lovers, As time goes by..." Bing Crosby's version of Herman Hupfeld's CLASSIC "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I just love kissing  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Kissing is an art. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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it’s all bout the chemistry & the kiss...long slow tender weT not sloppy tongues dance frolic play rythymicly together followed by chills weak knees fireworks! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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A great kiss Is just that... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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this is a great post. makes one think about how they kiss and how there partner is appreciating and participating in the kiss. thanks
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10/25/2023 10:23 am |
A good read! I've always felt kissing is a very subjective activity. What I mean is that what one person may enjoy in kissing may not be the same for someone else. There are some objectively good and bad techniques. Many folks may enjoy a hot breath on the neck and ear. Some may enjoy a nibble or suction on the earlobe. But I've never met someone who wants their ear canal invaded by a wet tongue. Maybe my sample size is too small? But I do know a lot of what some may consider "bad" kissing technique comes down to mouth size, preferred aggressiveness, preferred tongue use, etc.
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That's a great how to blog. Thankyou for posting
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10/25/2023 8:54 am |
"This day and age we're living in Gives cause for apprehension, With speed and new invention And things like fourth dimension. Yet we get a trifle weary With mr. einstein's theory, So we must get down to earth at times: Relax, relieve the tension. And no matter what the progress Or what may yet be proved, The simple facts of life are such They cannot be removed. Refrain You must remember this, A kiss is still a kiss, A sigh is just a sigh; The fundamental things apply, As time goes by. And when two lovers woo, They still say, "I love you," On that you can rely; No matter what the future brings, As time goes by. Moonlight and love songs never out of date, Hearts full of passion, jealousy, and hate; Woman needs man and man must have his mate, That no one can deny. It's still the same old story, A fight for love and glory, A case of do or die; The world will always welcome lovers, As time goes by..." Bing Crosby's version of Herman Hupfeld's CLASSIC
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kissing is connecting
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I just love kissing
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As time goes by, a kiss is still a kiss. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Kissing is an art. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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it’s all bout the chemistry & the kiss...long slow tender weT not sloppy tongues dance frolic play rythymicly together followed by chills weak knees fireworks!
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A great kiss Is just that...
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It's all about the first kiss for me. If it's weird or forced, then it's probably not going to be a match. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Another day, another memory in the making. Are you ready?
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