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The Game Placed upon my knees with two simple commands: “Place your hands just above my knees and do not let go. You may squeeze as hard as you need to. You will maintain eye contact at all times.” He asks, “Do you know what I am going to do?” I answer, “Yes Sir. You are going to hurt me.” He asks “Why am I going to hurt you?” I answer, “Because you can Sir. I am yours to hurt.” He responds, “That’s right my little one. But you need me to hurt you. Don’t you little one?” I answer, “Yes Sir, I need it. I need it to hurt ” Then He begins the nipple torture without another word. It can vary from His fingers to clothespins slowly squeezed to clover clamps with the chain slowly pulled over time. If He sees I need encouragement or to borrow His will, He gently talks me through it. When He is satisfied with the “peak” of the torture, He tells me how well I’ve done, and how beautiful I am like this while backing off the pressure/force. He then tells me, “It’s time. These need to come off. And you know you will suffer. I am right here for you. Are you ready?” I answer, “Yes Sir. I am ready to suffer. Thank you, Sir.” Understand that this moment is different. There is no escape. Even a safeword only means releasing the clamps. The pain will occur. And it will be a fucking insane pain for a few nanoseconds. But the die has been cast and safety demands release and the return of the blood flow to full force. He describes my cries (screams?) as singing. He often tells me “That’s it, sing for me. I love your song.” And while this isn’t often the catharsis of sobs, there are tears gently streaming. And those tears running down onto my now overly sensitive nipples are their own kind of pain often followed by the warmth of His mouth leading to yet another flood of brain chemistry from adrenaline, endorphins, and oxytocin. If you ask Him, and I have, He’d tell you that this position, hands just above his knees, close up, eyes locked gives him more of a feedback loop of my pain and endorphin rushes. The way I hold, squeeze, and release during allows Him to feel my experience as it happens, as well as see my soul. And nipples have the bonus of releasing oxytocin, especially in the female. Oxytocin is the love and bonding hormone. It is so powerful when combined with eye contact that a newborn’s focal point is the average distance from the nipple to the eyes of its mother. There’s a reason we call it the love hormone or love drug. It’s designed to imprint the two onto each other's brain and soul. There is a unique intimacy and connection in so simple of an act. You don’t need decades of skill, thousands of dollars of accumulated leather toys, or a dungeon. *All you need is trust in each other and the two-dollar pack of clothespins or a set of chained clover clamps. ~submissive-seeking.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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11/21/2023 6:09 pm |
What a beautiful dance
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she's about to catch a whooping
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xx
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Really well written and very relevant. Thank you
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Then He begins the nipple torture without another word. There is little I enjoy more than nipples torture .... Between my thumb and forefinger. Yes - Love the skin to skin contact and all you're able to do with thumb and finger working together. Delightful,  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I love every part of this. Thank you for sharing. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I definitely know the effect of those clover clamps! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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"Oxytocin is the love and bonding hormone." You know it 😏  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Hi sub aliljaded, How lovely written, if it's your own experience! Written, like if I was there as spectator, or even as The Dom himself. Indeed, no need for being a seasoned Dom or expensive gadgets....but only the will to go ahead, on both sides in their natural role and to go along with the execution in an equal mindset of give and take while getting this balance of physical pain and mental pleasure, individually and as a D/s unit/team. You are a rare sub needle in the haystack with no nonsense food for thought. Greetz, Dom J. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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As I have also....but only a few were really able to enjoy it for what its worth was meant to be. Great read!   "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Intimacy is a connection of the soul and heart . . Trust is earned by the ounce and lost by the ton . . Wholeness is never a simple act when pleasing is her fulfillment. The acts of Dominance and submission aren't the toys of behavior . . They are the evolution of imagination. Imagination is the most important toy in a BDSM relationship. It is fluid, it is the evolution of each soul and heart feeding, an being fed by the other. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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this sums it all up beautifully "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I never would call this a game. This is mutch more than gaming. I call it a dance interacting bringing joys to both. Forming bonds that are deep and lasting in my mind must be more than mear gaming. I do love dancing with. Someone like this. I miss the. Song the music to my ears. The bulding creating the binding the trust that was allready sowen. Time spent Invested to get the here. To happen to be! Never do I only play but shall we....... Dance ?... Lady! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Sweet!  Well played!  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Sweet! Well played!
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I never would call this a game. This is mutch more than gaming. I call it a dance interacting bringing joys to both. Forming bonds that are deep and lasting in my mind must be more than mear gaming. I do love dancing with. Someone like this. I miss the. Song the music to my ears. The bulding creating the binding the trust that was allready sowen. Time spent Invested to get the here. To happen to be! Never do I only play but shall we....... Dance ?... Lady!
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this sums it all up beautifully
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Intimacy is a connection of the soul and heart . . Trust is earned by the ounce and lost by the ton . . Wholeness is never a simple act when pleasing is her fulfillment. The acts of Dominance and submission aren't the toys of behavior . . They are the evolution of imagination. Imagination is the most important toy in a BDSM relationship. It is fluid, it is the evolution of each soul and heart feeding, an being fed by the other.
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I've played this game. It is fantastic.
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Then He begins the nipple torture without another word. There is little I enjoy more than nipples torture .... Between my thumb and forefinger. Yes - Love the skin to skin contact and all you're able to do with thumb and finger working together. Delightful,
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Hi sub aliljaded, How lovely written, if it's your own experience! Written, like if I was there as spectator, or even as The Dom himself. Indeed, no need for being a seasoned Dom or expensive gadgets....but only the will to go ahead, on both sides in their natural role and to go along with the execution in an equal mindset of give and take while getting this balance of physical pain and mental pleasure, individually and as a D/s unit/team. You are a rare sub needle in the haystack with no nonsense food for thought. Greetz, Dom J.
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"Oxytocin is the love and bonding hormone." You know it 😏 Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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I definitely know the effect of those clover clamps!
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11/1/2023 7:07 am |
I love every part of this. Thank you for sharing.
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Then He begins the nipple torture without another word. There is little I enjoy more than nipples torture .... Between my thumb and forefinger. Yes - Love the skin to skin contact and all you're able to do with thumb and finger working together. Delightful, Make Women Female Again
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