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aliljaded 53F
23778 posts
11/15/2023 4:30 am
Why This? Why Her?

Why do I want her so much? What does it mean that she has given me this amazing and precious gift of trust and submission?

At first, I wanted her because she was the placeholder for everything my life was lacking. She’s funny as fuck, dirty, wild, and drop-dead gorgeous! Who wouldn’t want her?! Life threw us some curves, and we grew from playmates, to close friends who truly trust each other. When I really got to know her, I learned that beyond all the first impression stuff that drew me to her, she has a heart that keeps on trying, no matter how badly fucked over it's been.

She trusted her darkness to me, and I did the same. We quickly grew into best friends. So, the answer to Why Her lies in that trust that grew out of shared tragedies. When two people trust enough to let down all their walls and be 100% honest, that becomes the basis of an amazing relationship, and from that point, anything and everything becomes possible.

Why This is a bit trickier. Part of it is the physical pleasure that she gives me, of course. Being with her…the things she does to me, for me, feel fucking amazing! It's more than that though, so much more. It’s an exercise in trust and communication. It's a chance to do things the right way, instead of falling into the trap of complacency. It's looking back on every mistake I’ve made in relationships, and saying that I won't do that again. I’ll take the risk, open my soul to this person, and see where it takes us.

Most importantly though, it's my way of repaying and honoring the most precious gift she could ever give me. When a woman trusts and loves you so deeply that she is willing to give you her body to play with, to experiment on, to explore…she’s giving you her heart and soul, her fears, and asking that you guard them with your life. For me, that’s the true gift of submission. Everything else is just window dressing.

I think she’s also looking for me to give her peace at the moment. When you get lost in lust and desire, nothing else matters. The whole fucking world, all the stress, and bullshit…it all vanishes, and there is nothing but the sensory overload of that instant. Fear, pleasure, anticipation…all mixing to drive away the pain.

So, I’ll fuck her savagely, and relentlessly. I’ll smack her ass until tears roll down her cheeks. I’ll leave bite marks on her thighs. I’ll bend her over the bed and rip her panties off. I’ll take her at awkward, random moments because she’s fucking mine, and it feels good to remind her of that. And I know that’s what she wants because we talk about all those things, and she trusts me enough to tell me where her limits are, and how hard she can be pushed. She trusts me to respect those limits and push her to the edge, without losing control of myself.

What started as a simple diversion, a distraction from the disaster that my life had become, has turned into the most amazing relationship imaginable. It's a relationship that continues to grow and evolve, but at its core is based on trust, the desire to see each other happy, and the knowledge that things like this don’t come along every day, so we do our best to make the most of any and every moment we can steal.

~thedominantpoet


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
12/2/2023 2:31 am

    Quoting FleetingThoughts:
    She trusted her darkness to me, and I did the same.

    This is as simple and lovely as it gets. Finding someone with whom you can let down every mask and be completely honest is a rare thing.
I couldn't agree more.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


FleetingThoughts 48M

11/21/2023 8:47 pm

She trusted her darkness to me, and I did the same.

This is as simple and lovely as it gets. Finding someone with whom you can let down every mask and be completely honest is a rare thing.


Just My $0.02... Take it for what it cost you...

~FleetingThoughts~
A Place For Fleeting Thoughts


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
11/20/2023 3:17 am

    Quoting boh99:
    I like that this understands the worth of the act of submitting. Not often done.
Thank you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
11/20/2023 3:16 am

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    Why and Why This was always easy. What it meant was that it wasn't going to last.
That's truly sad.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
11/20/2023 3:16 am

    Quoting uncommon1:
    Why, isn't something that is
    written for you to read or that
    is whispered into your ear.
    Trust is the light and doubt is
    the shadow of trust.
    The question is, would you rather
    trust and regret or doubt an
    regret.
Trust and regret.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
11/20/2023 3:15 am

Yes, it is, D. It's something we rarely see in these parts.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


boh99 68M
3154 posts
11/15/2023 9:02 pm

I like that this understands the worth of the act of submitting. Not often done.


Snugglekittens 45M
34 posts
11/15/2023 5:33 pm

I didn’t read the story. Sorry. The photograph is well done. Excellent tone. The hair. Justo position of skin, just lips, color contrast. Very well done. Was this yours or professional?


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
11/15/2023 11:27 am

Why and Why This was always easy. What it meant was that it wasn't going to last.


uncommon1 66M  
1437 posts
11/15/2023 7:37 am

Why, isn't something that is
written for you to read or that
is whispered into your ear.
Trust is the light and doubt is
the shadow of trust.
The question is, would you rather
trust and regret or doubt an
regret.


drmgirl622 68F  
26110 posts
11/15/2023 7:33 am

Trust is the magical word!


All4TheMistress 55M  
1558 posts
11/15/2023 6:54 am

Very inspirational indeed!


jaekierstenh 39F
68 posts
11/15/2023 6:26 am

Wow


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
11/15/2023 4:33 am

This piece is truly inspirational.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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