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Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better  Kink can be practiced while being involved in different ‘relationships’. These may include playing together with a friend (or even acquittance), as a service (paying a Mistress for her services, for example), with a stranger (at a party or club), or with your loving partner. At Bedroom Bondage, we are all about exploring kink as a couple, so that is what I’ll be writing about. Trust & safety There’s a good reason that I start with this one. Nothing is more important than being able to put your full trust in your partner, and it is such a beautiful thing when you can. You know each other well, and should not have to worry about your play time turning into a bad experience because, for example, your partner does not respect your boundaries. A lot of people seem to think that it is all about being beaten up and tortured, but the ones who know better are very aware that there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. Domination and submission is always a matter of consent. Being able to completely give yourself to your lover is an incredibly sexy, freeing feeling! When your man has all the control over your body, you will be very aware of every little bit of it, enhancing all sensations. Feeling comfortable Believe me, the more comfortable you feel with your partner, the sexier you’ll feel, and the hotter it’ll get! You’ll be way more relaxed about revealing your deepest, darkest desires… Who knows what kind of dirty wishes the two of you share without even realizing it? Aftercare Something that should never be missing. When the submissive is exhausted, loving care from her Master is the cherry on an already delicious cake. It simply makes the whole experience even better, when he drapes a soft blanket over you, brings you something to drink (I always seem to be up for a big glass of juice or water myself after such intense hours), gives you a nice massage… I honestly couldn’t say what would be better than to be softly kissed, ‘I love you’ being whispered in my ear, and sweetly fall asleep after this kinky, sexy intimate moment together. When you take good care of your submissive, she’ll take good care of you, too. That’s exactly what it’s all about. Not just for the submissive to take care of her Master, but to take care of each other. ~dominantlife "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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And a curry
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Profound valuing leads to profound connection and empathy… riding the drop in a perfectly complementary asymmetry that, from my perspective, feels like being two places at once. It’s like a jazz improvisation woven from love and hunger and assured, practiced familiarity with a cultivated instrument that in its resonances forms a shared orbit. There is no other human experience that compares.
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12/21/2023 5:45 pm |
There's really nothing anyone can add to what you've said.
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seems like it can be such a pure expression of love.
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I don't desire just play......give me a connection every time!
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Kink is not a relationship, nor does it define a relationship. True authentic intimacy trusts deeper and is more honest an caring on a fulfilling level, than any kink or role play. Intimacy occurs long before the first kinky act.
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Aftercare is where the bonding truly gels... so important, to all participants
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Aftercare is just the best, after sharing something bound in trust to follow it up with care , kisses, cuddles intimacy… what better way to complete .
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 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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