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aliljaded 53F
23779 posts
1/3/2024 1:22 am
~BDSM Library ~ Books That Are Worth A Read



* Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame
• BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer
• Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
• Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison
• Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame, and Jon Jacobs
• Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams
• Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel
• Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel
• Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
• Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
• SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
• The Control Book by Peter Masters
• The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren
• The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
• The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
• The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
• This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters
• Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker
* How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive by Kate Kinsey
* Domination & Submission by Michael Makai

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Xplorer15 62M/59F
592 posts
1/6/2024 6:36 am

I will recommend "The Surrender" by ballerina Toni Bentley. It is an autobiography of a woman who needs anal sex from her man. While it is erotic it is also very educational on the notion of submission and, of course, surrendering to a lover or to a sexual act.


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
1/5/2024 12:47 pm

I have a small liberary of sm and or kink books.

My one time favorite is in Dutch, original in German.
Writing by; Sina-Aline Geibler....
* "Onderdanig wil ik zijn" it is especially about Masochistic submissives.
It was The One book, i could identify with, finally, as a masochistic submissive.

*Partners in Power,
living in kinky relationships, by Jack , he wrote some other books, too, about living the power dynamic structure within a M/s relation.

*It is not about the whip, by Sensuous Sadie,
love, sex and the spirituality in the bdsm scene.

And two, you also mentioned;
Different Loving too, Real People, Real lives, Real BDSM,by Dr.Gloria G. Brame with William Brame
And, The loving dominant, by John Warren, PH.D.

Great list!!


Mmqrx 33M
29 posts
1/4/2024 3:51 am

Thank you for recommendations


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:12 am

    Quoting DancingDom:
    Nice additions. I also recommend reading any Jack Rinella. He has great historical references. You will find that in his books and his presentations, he debunks the BS about "old Guard" that so many newer folks claim to be such. They generally do not know what it really was. Jack lived it.
Thank you for the recommendation, Double D.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:11 am

    Quoting manni_pr:
    Nice! Im acquainted to 2 or 3 of those in the list. Will definitely take a screen shot and explore a few more.

    Adding: The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

    Still reading it but liking it so far

    Thanks for sharing Jaded!
Thanks for the recommendation, Manni. I was looking at the book about six months ago. I hope you had a lovely holiday.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:08 am

It is.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:08 am

    Quoting slave_hazel:
    worth giving a shot:

    1.Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex

    2.The Ritual of Dominance and Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance and Submission by David English
"Come Hither" was the very first lifestyle book I bought. I loved it. Thank you for the recommendations.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:06 am

    Quoting RobertBishop:
    A lady and a scholar - a potent combination.
Thank you.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:05 am

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns"........this one sounds interesting!
That one was a good read. I would definitely recommend it .

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:04 am

    Quoting Artschoolgrad:
    now that's a library!

    can she read them to me?
Of course!

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:03 am

You're welcome.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:03 am

    Quoting Tckg12:
    great list. i've only read2 of them. well this will keep me busy for awhile i'm thinking lol

    obviously need to catch up on my reading
I've only read about three or four of them, myself.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/4/2024 2:01 am

You're welcome.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Formature1213 33M

1/3/2024 11:13 pm

Thank you for the advice.


DancingDom 74M
22588 posts
1/3/2024 12:06 pm

    Quoting slave_hazel:
    worth giving a shot:

    1.Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex

    2.The Ritual of Dominance and Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance and Submission by David English
Nice additions. I also recommend reading any Jack Rinella. He has great historical references. You will find that in his books and his presentations, he debunks the BS about "old Guard" that so many newer folks claim to be such. They generally do not know what it really was. Jack lived it.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


manni_pr 52T
2609 posts
1/3/2024 11:05 am

Nice! Im acquainted to 2 or 3 of those in the list. Will definitely take a screen shot and explore a few more.

Adding: The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Still reading it but liking it so far

Thanks for sharing Jaded!


All4TheMistress 55M  
1556 posts
1/3/2024 8:07 am

Looks like some good reading!


slave_hazel 29F
8 posts
1/3/2024 7:35 am

worth giving a shot:

1.Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex

2.The Ritual of Dominance and Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance and Submission by David English


RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
1/3/2024 7:24 am

A lady and a scholar - a potent combination.


drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
1/3/2024 6:36 am

"Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns"........this one sounds interesting!


Artschoolgrad 47M
8707 posts
1/3/2024 4:07 am

now that's a library!

can she read them to me?


likeithot19 62M
6054 posts
1/3/2024 3:21 am

another great post, Thank You


Tckg12 69M
2499 posts
1/3/2024 2:36 am

great list. i've only read2 of them. well this will keep me busy for awhile i'm thinking lol

obviously need to catch up on my reading


rydermantel 69M
25364 posts
1/3/2024 1:51 am

Thanks for posting that list.


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
1/3/2024 1:24 am

Please feel free to add any others you think are relevant.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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