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Time Has Taught Me.... * You can be a kick-ass submissive and not own a single piece of lingerie * You can kneel in slip-on Converse just as well as you can in heels * Wanting to be wanted can lead to seriously poor decision-making * You can love someone and not be a match * You deserve as much pleasure as they do * Liars and cheaters will always lie and cheat * Not everyone likes the spotlight; it’s ok to live D/s very privately * It’s ok to make things like rope bondage and tickling hard limits; it’s ok to make anything a hard limit * Dominants can use a safeword or otherwise stop an activity * Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit * Moving quickly rarely leads to longevity * Your gut is never wrong; listen to it * It’s ok to not look like a fetish model; most people don’t * Sex can feel good even without orgasming * Squirting orgasms are a bit of a parlor trick, and they don’t always feel as good as other types of orgasms * If the effort isn’t there, in the beginning, it never will be * You can defer to someone and respect them as a leader even while watching Netflix and eating steak nachos with your fingers * Dominants can get sick and be huge babies and still be worthy of obedience and respect * Not every Dominant is an executive with an expense account * Submissives can make more money than their partner * You don’t have to say ‘Daddy’ to feel it in your bones * Toxicity isn’t gender-specific * You can’t always educate yourself out of raised-with-it bias, but you have to try * It’s ok to demand more for yourself; having standards solidifies self-worth * Strength is a process * Self-esteem requires active management * Submission doesn’t cease to exist when you’re single * Submission doesn’t just end when you hit 30 or 50 or 70 * You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do * You can change your mind * You can use your voice * You have to use your voice **Author Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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That's a great list. That's a hot photo as well. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit. Ain't that the truth! I always get a chuckle when I read something about 'being released'. I always think .... "Get a fucking grip!!!" I also like the 'under consideration' comments. C'mon people .....  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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1/8/2024 7:58 am |
All true and good advice 
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One of your better lists M.   ...and that ass looks familiar. Tulsa as I remember. Her name is on the tip of my tongue. Something is on the tip of my tongue, maybe it's not her name. 
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All points are to the point! It all comes down to the common sense.
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ali These are all so true! I love the picture too A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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i LOVE her in slip-in Converse and nothing else. yummy Great post, aliljaded, full of informative statements that everyone should read and take to heart.
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i LOVE her in slip-in Converse and nothing else. yummy
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Some great points!
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I agree with every single one of these!
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Absolute certainty is the greatest i l l u s i o n
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Submissives can walk away; you don’t have to be ‘released’ from shit. Ain't that the truth! I always get a chuckle when I read something about 'being released'. I always think .... "Get a fucking grip!!!" I also like the 'under consideration' comments. C'mon people ..... Make Women Female Again
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One does not have to give up using common sense to be in a relationship of any sort. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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everything in this blog is absolutely true but sometimes it's hard for a submissive to understand that they can have a say in the relationship
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ALL ARE TRUTHS!
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Slave rick
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"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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