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What I’ve Learned As A Plus Size Girl That’s Into D/s 1. I am not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s okay. Okay, ladies, it's honesty time. I’m a bigger girl. I have thighs, hips, and large breasts. Not everyone is going to be down with that. Those who do stick around are those who matter. So what if you have a tummy and like to be tied up? I promise some guy somewhere will love every inch of you. 2. I don’t look like most porn photos. You know exactly what I am talking about. The photos that flood your feed, my feed, and even pictures you may have on your blog. Scantily clad women with svelte, slim bodies, flat tummies, skinny thighs, a tight butt, and not even a hint of cellulite. Let me tell you a little tip though…NO ONE looks like that. Even the models don’t look like that. Photoshop is magic. P.S. This applies to men too. Not all of you have a six-pack, chiseled jawlines, and perpetually wear a suit…but guess what? You’re still hot! 3. I will get criticized for my size. This is no secret. I can’t tell you how many times I have been told I need to lose weight or “Sorry but I’m not into fat girls”. Oh well, your loss. Trust me it sucks but as I said before someone will love your tummy, big butt, thick thighs, cellulite, and rolls. Someone out there thinks you are the sexiest thing to walk this earth. 4. I am just as sexy as anyone else. Being plus size is beautiful. So what if you have a few extra pounds? Love the body that you're in, and others will too. 5. D/s is for everyone! I’ve been told several times that due to being bigger, I will never find a Sir/Daddy/Master. This is simply not true. I have found a few. I’ve been into D/s for about 25 years now and men find no problems with me being plus-sized. Well, some have but they don’t matter. Whether you are a size 2 or 22 D/s is for you. 6. Not all littles are “little”. I am not a little, I have little tendencies but I have seen so many pics on DD/lg blogs where all the girls are tiny and cute. Well, guess what you can be cute and little and still have a tummy. Daddy will love you just the same. 7. Porn is unrealistic so stop stressing. Porn is pretty to look at and fun to watch but we all know that it isn’t real. It’s a fantasy. It’s a perfect dream scenario. It can be a guideline and a fun way to get ideas but it will never be 100% accurate. Laugh at your mistakes and imperfections. Sex is supposed to be fun. If you have never laughed during sex you are having bad sex. So what if you can’t twist your body like that? You are a person, not a pretzel. 8. Beauty is only skin deep. Cliché but true. There is so much more to beauty, love, and D/s than what your body looks like. Men want real—honest, smart, funny, loyal, etc. Yeah, a hot body catches the eye but a charming personality ignites the soul. 9. Love yourself. Another cliché but an important one. Take it from someone who has been there. Dom’s HATE when their sub talks down about themselves. It hurts them in more ways than you know. 1. It hurts because they love you and you can’t see that you are gorgeous to them. 2. They feel like a failure. When a sub is down on herself, a Dom feels like he has failed her. A Dom wants his sub to feel loved, cherished, and important. If she is upset about how she looks he feels like he has let her down. Also, self-love is important because you know the saying “You must love yourself before you love anyone else”. 10. I’m a confident, sexy, beautiful, plus-sized submissive, and I KICK-ASS!!! Hell yes. I am plus-sized but so the fuck what? I’m hot as hell. I am smart, funny, sarcastic, strong, and one hell of a conversationalist. I am not what the porn industry would make you believe submissive looks like but I still kick just as much ass as those women do. No matter your size BDSM is for all. Be confident. Be sexy. Be beautiful. Stay Kinky. *Author Unknown *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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bbw's are hawt.
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Thise who are "happy in their own skin" are happy in life. Weight can be gained or lost. It's who were ARE that counts.
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I don’t believe there is an ideal body type or age and what I find most sexy is someone comfortable with themself.
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Great point and comments. Most everyone will get all of it eventually.
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the inside excites a fellow too !  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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"What I’ve Learned Being With Plus Size Girls That’s Into BDSM" They are ALL beautiful, sexy, playful, passionate, loving women...... leave your preconceived ideas on the door knob with the Do Not Disturb sign. They ALL have feelings....NEVER hurt their feelings.....nipples and butt....but not the feelings..... Talk to them before you lay down with them. Be considerate, some might have limitations or problems and just not able to play like you would want. Just adapt and work with them and have the best time of your life......    "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Thin or plus size, attitude and devotion are everything. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I'm going to try and tell you this without simping, because I never simp except when looking at some of the lady photos that rydermantel posts. I once saw a blind man with a decently attractive woman and they had 4 kids, and I thought if people could only see each other through his eyes. They were clearly man and wife. It's amazing to not only desire someone you've only had text or verbal communications with, but to have a relationship with someone you haven't seen must be magical. I try and view women through that blindman's eyes, looking deeper for the real person, and not at the image they have on display. The heart can see what the eyes can not, but you have to have a heart to see. There are always people who are not going to like or accept you and for no reason. I'm willing to bet that none of those men who said they wanted you to lose weight were willing to try and work with you, and help you to achieve those goals. They just wanted someone to fuck while, in their mind they didn't any other sexual options. Those people are the real losers. When I'm interested in a woman and we're writing and texting. I don't want to see a photo right away, because I don'y want anything to distract or influence me. Most people that see are bind, and some who are blind can see, but don't let them drive if you're going out to eat. Try and find just one thing to smile about today. Thats not much to ask. Sorry to have taken up so much space, I felt there were some things you needed to hear. Thanks for the lovely story about the blind man. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The societies are forgetting that BBW are not plus sized because they eat too much. A lot of their body fat is genetically made, they can do nothing with it or against it. BBW easily can balance the negative criticisms with their true style and their true behaviour than mimicrying something what they are not. My experience is that BBWs are happier than anorexics - if they stand on the ground with 2 feet. BBW shall live long, knowing that we love them.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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All shapes and sizes make the work go around. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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When we're born we get a ticket to the freak show . . If we aren't born perfect, we get a front row seat. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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So true, I was one of those that discriminated against bigger gals. Then I met the love of my life, my ex-wife. She would tell me, when mad. ( I know you think I'm a fat pig ) It always kinda hurt, even if I would have thought that. Which I never did. I would never have said that to her. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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"Laugh at your mistakes and imperfections. Sex is supposed to be fun. If you have never laughed during sex you are having bad sex." So true!! I think people are so afraid of what their partner might say about their body, they get all wound up about appearances, and forget that they just need to relax and have a good time. I love the picture you posted - her black hair that is permed/curled is just off the hook!!! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Don't mean to turn over the apple cart... But this blog could have easily applied to men as well.. And we get on both sides... Being fat or not being muscular enough...well muscular that comes from steroids and is hard to obtain naturally. The problem with women...is they are trying to fit in and impress other women. Men really don't care if you wear a certain brand,the latest hairstyle or have that " every other woman/ God aweful" nose ring. We don't care if you don't wear make up...fuck we don't care if you don't wish to shave.. It doesn't change who you are.. The same could be said of plus sized women.. I find them very attractive,very feminine. I think women need to just hang out with some dude friends instead.. Youd learn ALOT and realise we aren't pressuring you to fit into some unrealistic image of what a woman should be Men aren't complex..we are very meat and potatoes.. We like boobs...ass,thighs Thanks for stopping by. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Hear hear! Love this  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Thank you for sharing. We all can use this pep-talk at one point or the other "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It is all in the eye of the beholder. What comes from the heart is all that matters. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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the inside excites a fellow too !
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"What I’ve Learned Being With Plus Size Girls That’s Into BDSM" They are ALL beautiful, sexy, playful, passionate, loving women...... leave your preconceived ideas on the door knob with the Do Not Disturb sign. They ALL have feelings....NEVER hurt their feelings.....nipples and butt....but not the feelings..... Talk to them before you lay down with them. Be considerate, some might have limitations or problems and just not able to play like you would want. Just adapt and work with them and have the best time of your life......
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Thin or plus size, attitude and devotion are everything. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Don't mean to turn over the apple cart... But this blog could have easily applied to men as well.. And we get on both sides... Being fat or not being muscular enough...well muscular that comes from steroids and is hard to obtain naturally. The problem with women...is they are trying to fit in and impress other women. Men really don't care if you wear a certain brand,the latest hairstyle or have that " every other woman/ God aweful" nose ring. We don't care if you don't wear make up...fuck we don't care if you don't wish to shave.. It doesn't change who you are.. The same could be said of plus sized women.. I find them very attractive,very feminine. I think women need to just hang out with some dude friends instead.. Youd learn ALOT and realise we aren't pressuring you to fit into some unrealistic image of what a woman should be Men aren't complex..we are very meat and potatoes.. We like boobs...ass,thighs 
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1/15/2024 8:36 am |
I'm going to try and tell you this without simping, because I never simp except when looking at some of the lady photos that rydermantel posts. I once saw a blind man with a decently attractive woman and they had 4 kids, and I thought if people could only see each other through his eyes. They were clearly man and wife. It's amazing to not only desire someone you've only had text or verbal communications with, but to have a relationship with someone you haven't seen must be magical. I try and view women through that blindman's eyes, looking deeper for the real person, and not at the image they have on display. The heart can see what the eyes can not, but you have to have a heart to see. There are always people who are not going to like or accept you and for no reason. I'm willing to bet that none of those men who said they wanted you to lose weight were willing to try and work with you, and help you to achieve those goals. They just wanted someone to fuck while, in their mind they didn't any other sexual options. Those people are the real losers. When I'm interested in a woman and we're writing and texting. I don't want to see a photo right away, because I don'y want anything to distract or influence me. Most people that see are bind, and some who are blind can see, but don't let them drive if you're going out to eat. Try and find just one thing to smile about today. Thats not much to ask. Sorry to have taken up so much space, I felt there were some things you needed to hear.
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1/15/2024 6:51 am |
The societies are forgetting that BBW are not plus sized because they eat too much. A lot of their body fat is genetically made, they can do nothing with it or against it. BBW easily can balance the negative criticisms with their true style and their true behaviour than mimicrying something what they are not. My experience is that BBWs are happier than anorexics - if they stand on the ground with 2 feet. BBW shall live long, knowing that we love them.
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All shapes and sizes make the work go around.
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When we're born we get a ticket to the freak show . . If we aren't born perfect, we get a front row seat.
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