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aliljaded 53F
23860 posts
3/28/2024 4:08 am
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"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


meltwill2 72M  
3787 posts
3/28/2024 9:36 am

What I have always thought and said.....


uncommon1 66M  
1405 posts
3/28/2024 6:57 am

Power should be divided equally between
partners.
That means each person preserves their
individuality and feels free to express themselves
knowing they have space where even
divergent views and opinions are met
with tolerance and respect.
The health of any relationship (not just romantic)
is defined by the presence of reciprocity,
equality, and a continuous flow of energy
within the dynamic.


spankpinch10 65M

3/28/2024 6:15 am

greatpoints.


aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
3/28/2024 5:08 am

Too many people confuse authority with power. One NEVER can give up their personal power. They can only delegate authority to another. Likewise, consent is ongoing. The polarization of authority is control and surrender. Talk all you want, but HONEST communication first requires one to be honest to themself.
See my blog: How Control and Surrender are Different

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.


drmgirl622 68F  
26058 posts
3/28/2024 4:44 am

Lots of things to ponder, M


Sirmakesuhot 60M
147 posts
3/28/2024 4:27 am

Alot of good information
Again very impressive
Thank you
S


NoNonsenseFromU 74M  
155 posts
3/28/2024 4:25 am

This is all true and on point and reinforces two things I keep telling myself and Subs: 1) This is a relationship between people - human beings - and must be treated with appropriate respect; and 2) Clear and consistent communication is not just a good idea - which it is - it is essential.


aliljaded 53F
8915 posts
3/28/2024 4:19 am

There is a lot of information to digest here. I feel that this is a great piece, chock-full of good information.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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