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aliljaded 53F
23931 posts
5/6/2024 3:32 am
Life



There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do everything with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Avonsenior 71M
55 posts
5/8/2024 8:52 pm

I love the look also


Avonsenior 71M
55 posts
5/8/2024 8:52 pm

Getting along with other people has been a thing I learned a long time ago. Some people will try to cause "issues" and if you can just try to ignore them or be gone before they get back.
Not worth the hassle if can avoid it and enjoy the people around you that put a smile on your face


rydermantel 69M
25748 posts
5/7/2024 6:45 pm

There is nothing to argue. The words are good.


Artschoolgrad 47M
8803 posts
5/7/2024 12:59 pm

i do love glitter tho : )


EvolvedEdge 57M
307 posts
5/6/2024 7:30 pm

I’ve long said that if you don’t know how to find happiness in a 10x10 room by yourself you’re unlikely to find enduring happiness next to someone else.


RobertBishop 66M  
2151 posts
5/6/2024 8:30 am

In the noontime of my life I shall look to the sunshine,
At a moment in my life when the sky is blue.
And the blessing I shall ask shall remain unchanging.
To be brave and strong and true,
And to fill the world with love my whole life through

In the evening of my life I shall look to the sunset,
At a moment in my life when the night is due.
And the question I shall ask only I can answer.
Was I brave and strong and true?
Did I fill the world with love my whole life through?


RobertBishop 66M  
2151 posts
5/6/2024 8:27 am

One of the Rules for Life is to surround yourself with those who want the best for you.


uncommon1 66M  
1459 posts
5/6/2024 6:50 am

We care about knowing the next
thing more than understanding
the last thing . . . Deep in the human
unconscious is the pervasive need
for a logical universe where life just
logically makes sense . . . But life and
the universe is one step beyond your
logic or mine.


drmgirl622 68F  
26156 posts
5/6/2024 6:13 am

Love yourself first!


lemonsong77 74M
259 posts
5/6/2024 4:35 am

I'll add, if you're not happy alone, there's little chance a partner will make it better. Personally I got to the point in my travels that I felt that my experiences would be better shared. That really started my photography. Maybe I was always that way but while I enjoy doing things alone I've found doing them with others enhances and broadens the experience. Life for me is about memories. And about the people who have expanded mine. Forgot how often I miss your thoughts.


SAS919 62M
42 posts
5/6/2024 3:50 am

Every morning when you wake up, you have a choice weather to be happy or to be angry. Life is too short to not enjoy, go out and experience anything and everything that makes you happy and raises your desires.
The choice is yours.
Good Morning!


DancingDom 74M
22609 posts
5/6/2024 3:37 am

Kind of explains why I am comfy being single so long.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


aliljaded 53F
8963 posts
5/6/2024 3:33 am



"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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