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how does one explain how does one explain this life style to someone who is not wired for it at all. Someone who sees it as abuse rather than disipline. I am stuggling with this. i know i am hard wired for this and have known it since i was in grade school. Because of all the shit I had to deal with in my life up till now, i have not really had a chance to esplore it. Once i did explore it I was hooked. Almost like a drug. Its intoxicating, addicting, its like i can't get enougjh of it. I have had my periods of drug use and this here is more addicting than any drug i have done or do. Husband doesn't get it. I do not know how to explain it to him. He is trying to understand. I will give him that. He is a man of few words which in its self is a problelm that he can not get. Ugh.... Any advice on this would be really greatful. Thank You Ss  
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I agree that it is hard to explain to people about this lifestyle except to say that plain vanilla is just that....too plain and no intensity. I had a female friend who sat down with her husband to tell him about her needs and it got him angry. His response was to grab her, throw her down and forcefully take her in his anger. She had never cum for him during sex except that time. He seemed to get it but was not really capable himself of being involved in it. I think honesty and full disclosure is the best you can do. You explain it so beautifully in your blog. Even if he understands he is not wired that way. Paul
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