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Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/27/2021 7:43 am

    Quoting aldompdx:
    BDSM Master and BDSM Slave are missing.
    They typically denote a stronger level of dominance or submission. But I prefer the terms control and surrender. The master controls themself, and from honor and respect for that self control, the slave chooses to surrender to the path on which the master travels.
Well, it was not really meant to be a comprehensive list covering all the possible roles imaginable. I did not specifically name Master and save as they for me are merely the extreme ultimate extensions of dom and sub...


submanbxl 68M

5/6/2021 1:56 am

i've discovered that i am well and truly a sub,1000% i've tried Domming others, but it really doesn't work for me. i just wind up feeling rather embarrassed and not really giving them any enjoyment either. i know my place and love it.


submanbxl 68M

5/6/2021 2:00 am

i've discovered that i am well and truly 1000% a sub. i've tried Domming people on several occasions, but i simply can't do it. i wind up embarrassed, they wind up frustrated by my incompetence. i am happy and proud of what i am.


Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
5/18/2021 1:02 pm

I used to consider myself neither dom nor sub - just an equal partner.

However, having a real man pumping away balls-deep in her ass can cause a Tgirl to realize that there really is something submissive about her, and that's OK.


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
5/26/2021 11:53 pm

    Quoting submanbxl:
    i've discovered that i am well and truly 1000% a sub. i've tried Domming people on several occasions, but i simply can't do it. i wind up embarrassed, they wind up frustrated by my incompetence. i am happy and proud of what i am.
As long as you are happy in your own skin, that all you can really ask for.


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
5/27/2021 12:05 am

    Quoting Suzy_Que:
    I used to consider myself neither dom nor sub - just an equal partner.

    However, having a real man pumping away balls-deep in her ass can cause a Tgirl to realize that there really is something submissive about her, and that's OK.
Interesting point Suzy... Bur surely there is more to it than that. If you just need that hard cock balls deep inside you, pumping hard, you could still get this if you were dominant. Eg, ordering your submissive to pound you, or simply getting on top and riding him as hard as you can!

The point im making is better highlighted in my post (in my private chatroom) Oral sex, the action of a sub or a dom. In this post i discuss how the role of an act can change due to the demeanour of the participants.


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
5/27/2021 12:08 am

    Quoting  :

I agree entirely, Brains. Far too many ppl on this site are far too judgmental, and I have said many times in various discussions that one thing I really don't like is ppl who take the attitude, "My kink is better than your kink!"


Painter777 64M  
30 posts
5/29/2021 4:32 am

in normal life always a dom ,as am here , but as some say there should be bdsm Master or bdsm slave should be on the list


Suzy_Que 53T
1245 posts
6/1/2021 5:51 pm

    Quoting Wicked_Tongue:
    Interesting point Suzy... Bur surely there is more to it than that. If you just need that hard cock balls deep inside you, pumping hard, you could still get this if you were dominant. Eg, ordering your submissive to pound you, or simply getting on top and riding him as hard as you can!

    The point im making is better highlighted in my post (in my private chatroom) Oral sex, the action of a sub or a dom. In this post i discuss how the role of an act can change due to the demeanour of the participants.
I think for me, a big part of the pleasure is being under him while he pounds my ass, unable to control the motion, with my arms and legs wrapped around his body, just holding on until he is satisfied


Baylee842 55M
1 post
6/26/2021 4:33 pm

Total Dominance



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