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Wicked_Tongue 61M
300 posts
4/29/2021 11:09 am
Connections... (A poll without the poll options!)


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Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/29/2021 11:13 am

So in my profile I make a big deal about the importance of those "connections!" To me, it's all down to compatibility...

Some things are obvious... A love of similar musical genres or the same groups, ditto tv shows, and literature/books. Sometimes tho we need to be a tad more spiritual about these things and a similar state of mind is just as important as wanting to binge-watch the entire 5 seasons of Breaking Bad, or sit thru the final awful episodes of Game of Thrones.
Maybe the latest Alice Cooper concert tour is available on blu ray...

So we observe each other, seeing how each reacts and interacts in a given situation...

Are we quick to anger? Does she get my sense of humour? Bloody hell, I would have handled that differently!

In my profile I list quite a few random items that I like and also a few quotations that show broadly how I view myself as a person in the (evidently vain) hope that this may stir some longing or interest in a fellow kinkster who resides closer than an eight hour plane flight.

So, what sort of factors are important to you in finding your soulmate, your "one," or maybe just a wonderfully compatible "friend with (or without) benefits!"

I was going to list these factors/characteristics in a typical 1 to 10 selection process but I got to 10 different factors without really giving it too much thought, so I shall merely ask for your comments please, as God knows how many factors I would have finished with in my list!


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/29/2021 11:16 am

To start the ball rolling the most important factors for me would be music and a strong/feisty (but not O.T.T.) personality!


drmgirl622 68F  
26151 posts
4/29/2021 11:29 am

One of the factors for me is someone that is easy to laugh.


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/29/2021 1:34 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    One of the factors for me is someone that is easy to laugh.
I think that is very high on most peoples' list. It was certainly high on my list... the one that I abandoned after getting straight up to 10 choices...

I remember loving the fact that a playmate of mine almost wet herself at one small line from a Ricky Gervais live video, as I had had a very similar reaction!


1uncommondom 77M

4/29/2021 1:38 pm

Understand the difference
between the love of your
life and your soulmate . .
One is a choice, and one is
not.


SociallyTwisted 57M
244 posts
4/29/2021 3:56 pm

I just look for someone I'm perfectly comfortable being precisely Myself with.. not one for 'the best foot forward' choriography.. it's usually a facade, I'd much prefer that worst foot.. see what I'm really waking up with lol


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/29/2021 3:58 pm

    Quoting  :

Would six foot dead score the necessary points Jane?? lol


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
4/29/2021 3:59 pm

    Quoting SociallyTwisted:
    I just look for someone I'm perfectly comfortable being precisely Myself with.. not one for 'the best foot forward' choriography.. it's usually a facade, I'd much prefer that worst foot.. see what I'm really waking up with lol
Good call!



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