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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
3/29/2018 7:59 am
Thinking about broadcasting, good bad or otherwise advice please


Was pondering broadcasting here, have no clue how to do it, if it’s worth it, why people do it, what are the pros and cons, will you kindly share thoughts and any tips and advice you have here, thanks

kalbi1231 70M

3/30/2018 7:13 am

Keep in mind that you absolutely no control once you begin your feed. Any and all of the contents will be in the public domain and I mean public. You will not be able to pull it back at all.


Gowron 69M
3113 posts
3/30/2018 6:17 am

I never show my face and I think you shouldn't (unless it's already visible in pictures and videos in your profile).

Being a man, I only get a few viewers and they seldom address me (standard members can only watch).

On a few occasions in the past, when everybody could chat, I've found myself in trouble to keep 5 or 6 separate conversations, so I wonder how women manage with 20 or more. I believe they just ignore most of the callers and stick to a few interesting ones.

Anyway, as in the case of everything else, there's no substitute for practice.


maletramp 64M
2095 posts
3/30/2018 5:24 am

Other than exhibitionism and voyeurism, It's a way to have a group conversation.

While standard members can watch, they can't participate in the conversation..No idea if there is a way for them to participate and not view the video??? So most of your watchers will not be able to respond to your comments or the conversation..

Seems attempts at conversation don't go well, as the viewers commonly are hoping for a more prurient experience.


anteater14 61M
2229 posts
3/30/2018 1:25 am

I suppose I'm a bit of a webcam whore, but I don't go to great effort to provide a show to people - I can't say I don't flirt a little but I maintain a level of decorum fitting to my persona, and just allow those who want to watch and chat to pop in and say hello.

Firstly, ensure the background is suitably personal identity free - you don't want stuff filmed that might lead to identity theft or blackmail.
If you live with someone else, protect their identity too - I don't cam when LadyFriend is about as we don't want the accidental possibility of her face appearing on a public site.

If you intend to put on a show, have everything you need close by so that you remain in the camera eye for as long as possible.

When filming, you'll get a fair share of trolls and similar - understand how to ban people and be prepared to deny any outlandish requests ....... I was once asked to get on all fours and bark like a dog - a polite refusal works best or ignorance, and if they persist then ban them.

Most importantly, enjoy yourself just doing what you intend to do - I'm a very impromptu type of person but I will never stretch my limits for anyone, so if you have a script of what you intend to do then stick to it.

Happy camming

D xx

Carpe Diem - the past is history, and the future is bleak.


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
3/30/2018 12:59 am

I do broadcast for many years now on this and other webcam dating sites where I have a profile to find men interested in my sexual preferences. Few advises:
- Place your camera above you focused on you, not on your furniture;
- Use spotlights, I have 3, one pointed on my head, one on my chest, one on my genitals;
- Test before going live: make sure the light and colors are right: webcams sometimes turn blue or purple;

Prepare yourself mentally for very direct questions about your body, your sexuality and your desires. Be aware why you do this: dating for a physical meeting in most cases assumes you are prepared to have sex. I have met men who had me naked in their arms enjoying foreplay, got horny but quit and left as something prevented them to enjoy my body.

I broadcast like in the picture: naked and with face. I answer all questions and requests, show close ups of body parts when asked, I share explicit nude pics. This is about the only way to prove you are real and no troll here. For dates I always make appointment in a gay sauna club. I wait naked for my date in the bar as that proved to work best.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


bdst1 64M
703 posts
3/29/2018 9:21 am

Personally, I think too much can go wrong during a live broadcast, including a potential loss of anonymity. And, if that happens, you don't know for sure that someone somewhere wasn't recording the session.

Which is a shame, because I am sure it is a huge potential turn-on if you're in an exhibitionist mood.

A half way house is to record something on camera, edit it so you're satisfied (to coin a phrase) and then post it on one of the many websites that encourage you to do that sort of thing. It still meets the same kind of needs, but with more control, though the thrill of live action is of course missing.

Oh, and don't forget to post the link for us

Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 3/29/2018 12:29 pm:
Thinking more of a g-rated scenario, for conversation or info sharing, great advice though, thank you

diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
3/29/2018 8:16 am

why not you already have the following go girl go i say


ZZYZZYXXX 66M

3/29/2018 8:02 am

To share beauty is ALWAYS needed............especially in these times! Please !



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