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Sir__Charles 59M
6 posts
6/4/2018 5:21 am
Makes me wonder


As I was strolling trough the profiles this morning, I came across one that truly made me wonder. While looking for a potential submissive, one photo caught my eye, so naturally I clicked upon it. Reading the profile (Yes, some of us do actually read them), I saw that she had written that if someone had a dick pic in their profile, NOT to contact her. She desired a D/s relationship that is more than just sex. Well, I can certainly relate to that. I am one that believes BDSM is more than just kinky sex. Now, while I can relate to it, and agree, that was not the part that makes me wonder; at least not entirely. The photo that caught my eye, as well as ALL the other photos she had posted are of her in various poses, nude. To include a closeup of her tits and pussy. Now you would think that any woman, Domme, submissive, slave, or vanilla would know that almost any straight or bi man that sees a woman's nude photo is going to almost instantly think SEX!!!! What makes me wonder is how can she possibly think that she can post nude photos of herself, insist that she desires more than sex and DEMAND that any man that contacts her not to be considering sex? Get real. In a perfect world that might, just might, seem logical. We however, are not in a perfect world. When men, and women, view naked photos, sex is going to come to mind quicker, and last longer, than any philosophical thoughts. Anyways, that's just my view on the matter.

Sir__Charles 59M

6/5/2018 4:32 am

Yes, I made a comment and stated my opinion about a profile, and yes, by posting it on a blog, encouraged others to give their opinion as well. I enjoy a good debate, sharing opinions, but an argument? Where? Arguments are just mean, rude and nasty. A debate might change a person's opinion, but not always, an argument never does, it just creates hard feelings. As to meeting her for sex, I didn't send any message. Her interests and mine was not a match. I do not use an argument to get sex. Either a person wishes to meet me, or they do not. Either way, life goes on.


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
6/6/2018 3:08 am

I agree with Lilli that people have the right to say what type of mail they will not respond to.
As a female you get a lot of hook up type of mail which she probably understands she will will get a lot of, especially with the nude photo's.
If she is an exhibitionist then she is merely expressing herself and reminding others that doesn't mean she is up for 'just some fun'

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Sir__Charles 59M

6/6/2018 5:37 am

Well I could make the argument that perhaps the men are exhibitionists as well, simply expressing themselves and not looking for some quick fun.

Nah, never mind. Even I can not believe that one. I almost could not even write it. I will concede the point.

I have to thank maso for the scolding, the finger wagging, and sending me off for a dictionary.


subguyfordomfem 68M
167 posts
9/6/2019 1:05 pm

It is true men need to see and woman feel. It's nice being a little of each!


CaroCuddles 39F
202 posts
4/29/2020 6:10 am

Sounds like the bitch needs a firm spanking Sir Charles x


looking4fat 72T

11/11/2021 3:45 am

i have seen similar statements and really do not understand them. While i CAN understand not wanting a "dick pic" to be a Man's Main Profile pic, or the ONLY subject of all His pictures, not to have any? No. That i do not understand. A healthy interest in erections seems to me to be an important part of one's willingness to submit to a Real Man.
Yes. Sex is only part of submission, and for some maybe not the most important part. To deny it's importance seems to me to be contrary to the concepts of deference and obedience that are the soul of submission. Setting limits and standards before meeting is important, but that one just seems silly.
Of course, my opinion is biased by my Love of Cock. To paraphrase Will Rogers, "i have never met an erection that i did not like." (Or should that be "that i did not lick?)

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.



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