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Shame How do you combat shame? How do you deal with feeling so much shame after doing something yet craving that thing so badly???? Is it something other people deal with as well who are like me? Is it self-confidence??? Or is it just a battle with ones own mind??? I don’t have the answers, I wish I did..... if I did I’d probably feel better about myself. Courtney |
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With shame also comes pushing people away
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I put shame and guilt in the same category. They exist only inside you and make you feel bad about yourself. Put whatever you are ashamed of into the past. Learn from it. Make recompense if necessary, but don't let a sense of shame or guilt eat you up. It can destroy you if you let it.
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"Shame derives its power from being unspeakable" is a quote I read a long time ago. Talk about it, let it out. Shame thrives in dark places. Best wishes to you. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I’m my everyday life I am a Person with presence and leadership abilities which is the opposite of who o am on here and who I want to be on here, I think my mind gets jumbled with it sometimes and can’t handle this part of me.
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I'm sorry i don't have the answers for you but i would ask, did you enjoy it ? Was anyone hurt by it ? If the answers are yes and no then to hell with the shame. You deserve to be happy. As in, what makes YOU happy. Not what someone else says should make you happy. And many here have struggled with balancing their different needs but what seems to help often is being accepting of all aspects of who you are and embracing that. Think of it as an adventure, a really fun one  Also the blogs are a great place to off load your fears and your joys as so many folks can relate Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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I don't think I can add anything better than some of the advice already given. Which sounds good to me, hope it helps.
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Shame turns me on. But still bothers me later. Which is why I've never been with a guy. That and very few guys turn me on. What turns me on is anal sex. Which I feel ashamed about all the time. But now I'm getting to the place where I can't stop being horny for it. I want a real cock to fuck me so bad and then I get ashamed of myself. If I thought the guy was really hot, about three guys in 45 years I would do it and deal with the Shane. But I don't know how to approach this one guy so I don't. Shane or not I'm going to do it soon I just can't help myself at this point. I'll love it then I'll be ashamed. I'm most afraid of becoming ashamed in the middle of it and wanting to stop and disappoint some guy. I want to make him happy too. that turns me on so much. Feeling him get off. How shameful. Kellie help me get fucked kumquat
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I wish i didnt feel so ashamed about anal sex. I love it. But im so ashamed that i love it. I had given it up for years until about 5 years ago when my gf started pegging me. That was so nice. We also got some little vibrators. That changed everything. I loved the way it felt and it made em me fantasize about getting fucked by a man. Now ive even found a couple of guys that turn me on. Really the first guys that i ever thought id like to have him fuck my ass. One was a cop that came to my door at 12 am. My car had been used in an armed robbery. I should him the paperwork for the sale. But as he wss writing down the info i realized we were standing right together. At one point he almost put his hand on my ass. I was so turned on. As he walked away i thought he's cute. First time id ever had that traction. I know he was turned on too. He looked down my shirt and saw i wss wearing a bra. I think he wanted to grab my ass. But stopped cause he was worried he get in trouble. I wish he had. He would have got to fuck me right there. But no and im still a male anal virgin. Ive cum close but i always chicken out. Because i worry ill get half way through and get all ashamed and run out crying. Im so ashamed just admitting to wanting it. This is the only time ive told anyone. It's getting bad now i fuck myself and dress like a sissy fag every night now. How do i get over it and let myself get what i need so bad? Sorry im just so lost. Kellie i need to get fucked kumquat
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