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sam_I_am97 27F
0 posts
2/23/2020 8:50 am
My take on life and people


They say older people can see the world as it is , younger have more faith and hope in mankind. If I am this bitter now , what is to come? People are rotten, manipulative, fake, cruel and very rarely genuine. They indulge in others misery, attempt to cause misery if one is happy. Always spinning and churning attempting throw a stick in the wheel of life and cause a big pile up of a mess. EVERY time I trust someone they burn me, every time I turn my back I get a knife in it. Being a realist is a curse, as an idealist sees things in another light, has more hope and faith, and I get that. I try and be a good person, and I try and see the best in others, but both those feats grow harder every day to achieve , and seem like an impossible hill climb. Best I can do is focus on me , live my life and let the chips fall where they may on the rest. I will be who I am, those that don't like can simply kiss my ass and those that do should not expect to kiss theirs for their attention. Saying all this, many are going say what a bitch, and you know what , maybe I am

mostlyharmless42 60M
158 posts
2/23/2020 9:05 am

As an 'Older Person' I can agree with much of what you have stated.There are some fine 'humans running about, but 'humanity' as a whole leaves a lot to be desired, in my opinion. About the best advice I can offer is to not expect a whole lot from people as a group , and try to find the few individuals that make life worth living. Best of luck with the search


sam_I_am97 replies on 2/23/2020 1:10 pm:
thank you for that. I do try to seek the goods ones , and quality over quantity always I believe.

msfunfor 63M
10766 posts
2/23/2020 9:14 am

hello ,
cute sam is writing a blog and alas it is not a happy one

what you say is true for young and old . nobody is immune to being lied to and used and it is a horrible feeling when that dawns on you .
so the question is what to do ?
i think your credo is right : keep being nice and open even if it sometimes hurt .
that hurt will create the shell that hopefully gets stronger and gets you protected..not perfectly but you will be better positioned to see the danger coming .
listen if there was a way to avoid all this , short of becoming a nun/ monk , then this would be a different world,,,but it is NOT .
getting hurt is part of human life .

be good
M

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sam_I_am97 replies on 2/23/2020 1:11 pm:
I know it is, I just wanted to scream out my frustrations, so I jotted them down instead.

2old2run 71M
344 posts
2/23/2020 10:16 am

smiles and welcome. The good thing is you will learn how to make yourself happy and not worry about what other think. You will also find out that the New of the day is fake. internet is filled with lies. and it is all to make you think their way and not to think for yourself. just one thing... you can do things for yourself you do not need someone to give it to you or tell you. most people have a brain they just won't use it. You are young have fun enjoy life and save a few $$ for when you turn 65. I wish well and hope you have a safe road ahead.


sam_I_am97 replies on 2/23/2020 1:12 pm:
I was not just talking about on here, but life in general, but I agree with what you are saying about it all. thanks

Amusement4You 38M

2/23/2020 11:15 am

I am confident you will someday meet someone who can you understand that while many people are the rotten scum bags you describe, there are also many who deserve to be trusted and deserve to be loved. You, like me, may never stop being a realist and will likely continue to believe than any random individual should not be trusted with your heart. However, you can never find the person whom you can trust with out continuing to expose yourself on occasion and taking the risk of getting hurt 9 times out of 10.


sam_I_am97 replies on 2/23/2020 1:13 pm:
I know , you still have to put yourself out there, or you destined to be alone for life and no one wants that .

fares70 47M
27 posts
2/23/2020 11:16 am

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MasterMent0R 57M
1642 posts
2/24/2020 3:09 am

You may learn in time the world is what you make it , Heres the truth which most people do not get or believe because they are reactionary victims { Yes I know that hurts and is annoying to hear} ! You attract what you focus on and feel and how you perceive , This universe is full of Magic or Hell depending upon what one focuses on . Most do not understand there own power whether submissive or dominant . I understand mine . In this I have always been served and enjoy my moments
Mastor Mentor
PS . appreciate your moments

" Life Is Like A Train " 20th Century


sam_I_am97 replies on 2/24/2020 3:04 pm:
If the world was what I made it, I would have drinks handed to me all day on a beach all day lol I get what your point is though and ty for your comment.

iwill44 42M
121 posts
2/24/2020 8:56 am

sam on my knees to serve you


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
2/28/2020 9:11 am

This may sting a bit, but that is not my intention.
The first step you can make toward a new type of hope is to review what you said: every time I trust someone. Have sufficient trust in yourself to enable that experience to become real for you. That experience is not some curse of the universe. What is it in you that leads you to trust people who abuse you?

As an example, I'm sure there are dozens of 70 year old men who would love to wrap you up and take care of you. Am I saying you should date a 70 year old? No. But there ARE men out there who are trustworthy and would take good care of you. What filters are you putting up that block the trustworthy ones and attract cruelty?

Secondly, is there a pattern here that repeats, over and over? Not only look for the pattern, but then look inside yourself to find the strings in you that harmonize with that pattern to bring it about and continue it. Yes, you might be putting up filters that block kind men. But you also may have (neutral word) "needs" here that resonate with cruelty and abuse. What are they? Where did they come from? Do you want them to control your choices (and be a dedicated masochist)? Or do you want a different kind of relationship dynamic?

You are young and attractive. There are men out there who would be good to you, use you thoroughly sexually, and appreciate the opportunity for both activities. Find the thing in you that sabotages your path to these men, and you will rejoice in the new route you've found.

Good luck.


tgd


sam_I_am97 replies on 2/28/2020 9:33 am:
Lots of very good points and things to think on. I agree with a lot you are saying and know there are many facets of my being I need to work on. I appreciate you taking the time to leave me such comment. thanks

BadAssBlackDaddy 66M
65 posts
3/1/2020 10:03 am

Hiya babydoll! Hate that you and many other good hearted people have to learn of the deep dark secret of most of humanity... but good that you now know at such a young age to always protect yourself... humans are truly just animals with self cognizance.. and yes DO like you! but still want to kiss that amazing ass and OOOOHHH soooo much more to IT and every inch of you! Stay classy baby!
Max


sam_I_am97 replies on 3/1/2020 11:51 am:
I am a good hearted person who endures , regardless of the ass hats, he rudeness, the cruelty of mankind.

leatherboyy 47M
33 posts
3/7/2020 3:08 pm

I won't mind kissing your pretty ass and then pounding it hard....I like that bitch in you...Bear Hugs~


blackfisteruk 57M
78 posts
3/19/2020 11:26 pm

One of the things money cannot buy is time, your time, My time....its precious

Dont squander it on the undeserving as you will never get it back.


sam_I_am97 replies on 3/19/2020 11:56 pm:
time is money, and all good things come to those that wait.

blackfisteruk 57M
78 posts
3/20/2020 12:13 am


calmguy2005 67M
118 posts
3/22/2020 6:56 pm

I also agree with a lot of what you said.
You forgot one sentence after "...and you know what, maybe I am." That would be "So what!"
I remember years and years ago there was a Snoopy poster that said "I Love Mankind. It's People I Can't Stand."
Stay strong Sam and stay yourself.


sam_I_am97 replies on 3/22/2020 8:15 pm:
you are right, so what lol I love that poster and I will


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