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nettleman1978 45M
14 posts
2/9/2020 5:36 am
Warm up before a caning - should it be allowed?


I have a question regarding the preparation for a good caning, and would welcome your thoughts...
Those of us who enjoy receiving a sound caning while restrained in position, know that it is much easier take if our bottom has been warmed up first with something a little less severe to start with. This can be anything from a long hard hand spanking to a good dose of a thick leather belt or cat style whip, or perhaps even a wooden paddle. The only trouble with a paddle is that it toughens the skin up very quickly, so that you don't really feel the effects of a cane after that, so I tend to prefer something which does a good job of warming up the bum, without actually reducing the effect of the pending caning.
I definitely prefer to receive a severe caning after I have already had my bum warmed up first, rather than receiving a 'cold caning',but I would of course always do as I am told.
So my question is this...
If a mistress told me to report for a caning, and she informed me in advance that it was going to be administered without any warm up, what should she do if, when I arrived and presented my bare bottom, she discovered that I had already warmed it up myself in advance, and my bottom was a dull red from a beating I had given myself, perhaps an hour before?
After all, the promise of additional strokes wouldn't really have much effect. My bottom has already been prepped for this, and so the additional punishment is relatively meaningless. The whole point of a cold caning is that those first couple of dozen or so strokes are the most painful, and the opportunity to deliver those particularly evil ones to me has now passed.
So what should she do?

HeyshamLA3 60M

2/9/2020 6:03 am

Depends on the reason for the caning. If its for training or to remind you who owns that ass then sure have a warm up. If its punishment or she/he just wants to the no.
Its not your choice.


nettleman1978 replies on 2/9/2020 6:18 am:
I like this idea that it depends on the reason. So a cold caning should be used for when it is really deserved? And of course it is not my choice - the whole point of being a sub! Thank you for your thoughts.

Mrdavid6623 65M
1518 posts
2/9/2020 6:35 am

In your example, I would’ve chucked a bit to myself, and continued as planned. Next time, I would’ve been sure to include “No warmup” in my instructions.

A little cheek now and then can keep things fresh and interesting for us Doms too.


nettleman1978 replies on 2/9/2020 9:28 am:
Interesting idea, that a bit of cheek from a sub can add to the fun.

Kitkatshadow 57F

2/9/2020 7:53 am

If its funishment, then yes a warm up. If its punishment, then no warm up...


nettleman1978 replies on 2/9/2020 9:28 am:
Oh, you're MEAN! I love it.

youlooking4djk 49M
59 posts
2/9/2020 8:25 am

All part
Of play if she been a good or naughty
Sub



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