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Common Misconceptions About Bdsm Practitioners One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM practitioners is that these individuals are psychologically disturbed. Through symbolic interaction it can be understood that the general public perceives BDSM practitioners as deviant and mentally ill. BDSM practitioners are portrayed to have a lot of emotional baggage; therefore, to non practicing individuals, people who practice BDSM have major psychological issues. Due to this misinformation, the general public has created a negative image of the BDSM practitioners, and this image has lead the general public to fear BDSM. However, it is important to note that BDSM is not rooted from abuse or domestic violence, nor does participating in BDSM mean that one enjoys receiving abuse or abusing. Report and studies has shown, that In contrary to common belief, people who practice BDSM are as psychologically healthy as the general population. Thanks to porn, Fifty Shades Of Grey, and a lack of open discussion, BDSM has been thrown into the mainstream spotlight with a ton of negative stigmas and stereotypes attached to it. I’m here to tell you that there’s SO much more to it than “rough sex” or a manipulative rich dude and his Red Room of Pain. Practising BDSM is and should be empowering, healthy, consensual, and safe for all parties involved... To my newbies; You’ve probably fantasied about something ~kinky~ at some point in your life. Follow your dreams. Turn that sh*t into reality. Research and play around with different types of toys, restraints, and tools, how to use them, and which ones are most appropriate for you and the type of scene you want to experience before you use them. Maybe start with lube and a blindfold or vibrator, then, if/when you’re ready, incorporate rope or a flogger or an automatic machine. Whatever you’re into... Or look for an experienced Master/Mistress to guide and teach you into the lifestyle...its a great experience |
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Psychologically disturbed? That is a good start. Are they?
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I am looking for an imaginative Mistress 
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Well said, young lady.
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Thank you, needed to be said. Please write more!
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The main thing that changed the general perception of BDSM was the Master&Johnson and the Kinsey Institute. They changed the general publics view of sexuality. Their studies concluded that there are not enough common sexual morals, ethics or practices to establish one practice as "normal". Conclusion, if there is no "normal" there is no abnormal behavior between consenting adults. Keep in mind that prior to that most sadism and masochism, diagnosed by a doctor was considered a mental illness.
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BDSM isn’t very well understood by people who do not engage in it... As they are mostly unaware that; BDSM is a way of "consensually" playing with the exchange of power. It involves communication and negotiation and the limits of what is acceptable and what isn’t are set by the person “giving up” their power... I rightly agree; there is no abnormal behaviour between consenting adults
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