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Blogs > Chequeredp > My Blog

Chequeredp 60M
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12/4/2022 12:22 pm
What to expect in evaluation
There are not swathes of slave material beating a path to my door, looking for an appointment as MY slave. Oh no. But, just in case you might wonder why I break ties, here is what you may expect me to check.

I am not that interested in filling your list of what you want in a Dom or Master. "slave" kinda means you obey, not I.
Your attempts to top from the bottom are both stark and unwelcome.

https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/5-ways-to-recognize-topping-from-the-bottom
https://www.submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/the-real-truth-behind-the-fear-of-topping-from-the-bottom

I shall assess your obedience and willingness. If I ask you to take a pic of your hand holding something red, or a pic of your chest fully clothed, and send this to me in the next 5 minutes...and you don't...why would I waste my time trying to train you? Either you are not the gender and race you present (eg a black man pretending to be a white 18yo girl). Or you take a hump at being told what to do - and what kind of a slave is that?

I shall assess your openness. I accept the early need for confidentiality via pseudonyms etc. Having said that, I want to see if you are open and honest. Usually it'll be questions about your fantasies, mental health, finances. If you are cagey in preliminary convos, it doesn't bode well for when we are in contract, does it? I am okay with a direct "It's too early to tell you, but I promise I shall when I'm your slave"

Once I am satisfied with your potential to be obedient willing and open, I shall go on to assess risks. Health, work, home life.

Only then shall I assess the range, the limits which might apply. It mayhap that you wish for something that I think I might indulge. A specific example, I am not a sadist but I might try if you are a masochist... Other than such coincidences, you cannot expect ME to try to match YOUR every desire. Never the less, it is right here, at the end, that you get to present your limits and aspirations for my consideration. I shall give you an honest response and its up to you to take move forward or not.

That's my evaluation process in a nutshell.

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