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Kitkatshadow 57F
0 posts
2/13/2020 11:09 pm
The sacred Paradox (Not written by me) But still awesome


A Master is not someone merely revels in the benefits that he reaps from the power and control that he wields over his sub. A Master is not just an automaton emotionally doles orders and watches with amusement as his minions perform his bidding. A Master is not a person only relishes the benefits that his superior status entitles him.

Certainly all of these characteristics could and often do exist within a Master. He may be demanding and at times selfish. He may genuinely enjoy and even be aroused by the power that he has over a sub. He may be able to expertly control his emotions, issuing his commands and enforcing his discipline with stone-faced determination.

But a true Master, is so invested in his sub that he is actually in a way a slave himself. He is a slave to his love for her. He is a slave to his responsibility. He is a slave to the passion and the commitment. He is a slave to his overwhelming desire to protect his property at all costs. He is a slave to his slave. She knew without questions that he loved her so much he'd literally lay down his life for her. He owned her, and his ownership owned him.

Kitkatshadow 57F

2/13/2020 11:17 pm

Happy Valentines day, to all Doms, and subs


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
2/14/2020 12:30 am

Nicely said.


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
2/14/2020 12:34 am

How true ,how true and so beautifully expressed ,thank you Xx


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
2/14/2020 12:37 am

Have a lovely Valentines Day friends Xx


Satyr_Mich 68M

2/14/2020 1:00 am

Happy Valentines's Day to one and all ! Appreciate the perspective you presented. It would seem to expand upon what you have said, would require a nuance approach as opposed to the belief ( held by some ) that all a successful alternative relationship requires is adhering to a " golden " set of rules. The real success is found in the power exchange and the meeting of needs between a sub and a dom. They make their relationship golden or special for themselves and in time realize the effort they invest in their relationship, provides them with the rewards no vanilla relationship can create for themselves. It is the goal that many of us strive for, but precious few achieve. Namaste'.


1uncommondom 77M

2/14/2020 2:56 am

That is the paradox
of a power exchange.
He is her strength . .
she is his weakness.


LookingforU4ever 66M
6 posts
2/14/2020 4:06 am

Shame this is plagiarized. Really should give credit for the work of others, and not act as though you had written it.

If someone wants to read the full quote then I would suggest they look up Jeff Erno and his book Puppy Love. Or they could just google this, these words are the first thing that is found in Google.


Kitkatshadow 57F

2/14/2020 4:28 am

    Quoting LookingforU4ever:
    Shame this is plagiarized. Really should give credit for the work of others, and not act as though you had written it.

    If someone wants to read the full quote then I would suggest they look up Jeff Erno and his book Puppy Love. Or they could just google this, these words are the first thing that is found in Google.
I never claimed to have written it, it is something i saw that struck a cord with me, I maybe should have stated it was not written by me.


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
2/14/2020 5:34 am

Pretty much nails it.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Gentle_DomLTR 61M
29 posts
2/14/2020 6:58 am

A real master can show compassion and love too


olderdaddy_63 68M

2/14/2020 7:07 am

    Quoting LookingforU4ever:
    Shame this is plagiarized. Really should give credit for the work of others, and not act as though you had written it.

    If someone wants to read the full quote then I would suggest they look up Jeff Erno and his book Puppy Love. Or they could just google this, these words are the first thing that is found in Google.
The title says 'not written by me'. Don't be a dick


LookingforU4ever 66M
6 posts
2/14/2020 9:55 am

    Quoting olderdaddy_63:
    The title says 'not written by me'. Don't be a dick
The title changed after I pointed it out. So I was not being a dick at the time.

It may resonate with her, but there are many bloggers who post sentiments that are other's, they admit it.

Not being a dick at all. If anyone wants to read the original work then they should be told where to find it.


Kitkatshadow 57F

2/14/2020 1:03 pm

    Quoting LookingforU4ever:
    The title changed after I pointed it out. So I was not being a dick at the time.

    It may resonate with her, but there are many bloggers who post sentiments that are other's, they admit it.

    Not being a dick at all. If anyone wants to read the original work then they should be told where to find it.
Damit, all i did was to post something that meant something to me!!! Sorry i did not get my P'qs and Q'S straight... But when you bare in mind all the bots that are one here, well maybe i could be forgiven???


Kitkatshadow 57F

2/24/2020 8:04 am

    Quoting  :

It sure did, thank you


JoElspanstp 70M

5/13/2020 3:39 am

"But a true Master, is so invested in his sub that he is actually in a way a slave himself."

These are profound words and very true. The coin has two sides, yet it is one. A Master who cannot understand the reciprocal nature of who we are, that man is not a master.



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