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Male Submissives The weather is so nice outside, I cannot believe that I am indoors, but I have been wondering for sometime about submissive men. No, I do not want to dominate them, but I have to wonder what it is that guides them to submit. Don't get me wrong, submission, is beautiful no matter the gender or... I have been submissive to bi Doms and during was absolutely fascinated the interaction. I know some male submissives are in a place where they are so tightly wound from their careers they need a safe place to let go and I know some truly like the internal prostate massage, but I cannot wrap my head around cbt and forced fem.. Perhaps it that I grew up in a testosterone storm. Do they feel like they have something to prove? Do they feel they deserve the humiliation and pain for some long forgotten sin? Or, do they truly have submissive hearts. I get that in some cases it is kink, but I am talking about all in submission... Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul. |
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3/7/2021 1:56 pm |
Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back... Please know I am not judging, just truly wondering. Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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3/7/2021 2:07 pm |
Erotic pain produces THE most intense orgasms, plain and simple.
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3/7/2021 2:44 pm |
submission to a strict, beautiful woman satisfies an erotic need. It can't be rationalised. It has to be experienced and enjoyed. It happens outside of logic.
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3/7/2021 3:56 pm |
Mine is dark story. I was molested at a very young age. really too young to understand what was happening. But found it very very erotic. Now it is a major turn on for me to submit and be used by Dom/ Dommes
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alwaysassertive . . . . . .I have to say that I also am pure Dominant. . .and struggle to understand how guys get their equipment knocked about so painfully. I suppose If you haven't tried it then don't knock it . . . but I've never understood the pain angle
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F I suspect it is the way they are "wired" I have NO idea why I prefer wearing women's clothes! I just do A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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It honestly sounds like your judging male subs... Which can be a win win or a hell no
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I think you really need to seperate between the wannabeess and the real male submissives in the lifestyle
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3/7/2021 6:59 pm |
It honestly sounds like your judging male subs... Which can be a win win or a hell no Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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3/7/2021 10:12 pm |
Thanks so much to all for the comments, thoughts and insights.. thanks also to those who read my post did not comment. I love this community where we can express our thoughts to other open minded individuals! Into the woods I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.
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3/7/2021 11:32 pm |
For me it's several things. My career was one where I had authority so I enjoy power exchange. I like being physically tortured. I enjoy pain and that heightens my sense of pleasure. I enjoy being helpless and at the mercy of a strict woman who can inflict the right pain on me.
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Never be afraid to ask questions...i think the corporate sub really is a bad stereotype...boss by day and sub by night really doesnt happen. And when it does it's more kink/sex driven. Being submissive is more of a born trait. Looking back i was submissive to female teachers back in grade school. Cbt? Why wouldnt a Dom/me target these areas..they are easily accessible, honestly the easiest way to control a male and really doesnt require expensive toys or years of experience to do it. Plus it requires so little effort on the Dominants part..a good slap of a cock or squeeze of his balls keeps the male sub in line. Feminization? I feel a male sub is there for a Dominant's pleasure/ kink. So s/he may chose to tranform the sub into various things from sissy, to dog,to urinal or whatever. It how the dominant wishes to use you
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3/13/2021 11:57 am |
I agree that the "corporate sub," as likesmature calls it, is a stereotype. While there are some such subs (there is usually some basis for most stereotypes), I suspect it's more a product of our social assumptions than a reflection of a widespread reality. Probably more common is the von Sacher-Masoch experience of "Venus in furs": an early experience of discipline or power exchange that imprinted a sexual dynamic of eroticized pain and submission. (True for me, though his was hotter!) Not to be discounted is the role that submission plays in enabling repressed sexual desire. This can be just shame about sex or -- and there's a literature on this -- repressed bi- or homosexual desire. Genital restraints can be incredibly stimulating. The right pain produces endorphins that heighten sexual experience. But there are people into heavier pain than I. So, I can only assume their experience is different. Generalizations are hard to come by in this area. Humans are remarkably diverse in psychology and sexuality. But for me it is fundamentally about acceptance and a safe space.
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