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Can you read my mind When i was talking with my ex i think i found what went wrong. She naturally is a Dominant woman..it is a mind set..she knows what she wants and how far she wants to take bdsm. I think part of the problem is most women are very big picture people.. they have a vision of what marriage,,a big house with a Pickett fence looks like. But alot of times women naturally assume the male is either on the same page or shares her vision. When in fact he is clueless They never stop to fully lay it out..explain to the male their plan. Its like when a woman tell a male to go to the market and pick up some tomato sauce... She knows exactly what brand and what type she wanted..for a reason ( thickness,quality). And he brings home some random jar. She never properly communicated her needs So ladies please explain in detail to your male what you need and want.. Whether that is in a jar of sauce ( brand, type,size, etc) or how far you want to explore the lifestyle. Men can be rather dumb..lol..but we arent mind readers. Just cause we are together doesnt mean we share a brain. |
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Nicely put, my friend. And be absolutely sure; the mindset you refer applies with same intensity (and lack of clear definition of objective) to submissives as it does to Dominants. Countless times I have tried to clarify that Dominants may be well informed and knowledgeable but still we do not precisely know what a sub needs, wishes and wants are. As you said, we are not mind readers. And more, "being rather dumb" we are extremely bad at guessing what the sub wants *at that exact moment, in that concrete situation*. So, please ladies, never hesitate; just tell us what you wish . Surprisingly pleasant results will happen almost instantly.
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