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Are people creating new terminology for kink? Just curious if your running across new terminolgy for kink I've been in the lifestyle for over 20 yrs and just receintly heard terms like wife and cuckcake. Now i am well aware of what a cuck/ cuckhold is.. But I was sorta amazed by the new terms. I ran across these on in the personal ad clubs.. One woman posted that they were a couple and she wants see her hubby have sex w women. But no humilation. They called this a cuckcake situation One guy posted that he had a "hott wife" that wanted have sex with various guys while he watched. But without the humilation . The def of a hott wife is exactly that....a couple where the wife has sex w multiple men w the hubbies approval etc etc etc. But it sorta made me wonder How is this a fetish then?... doesn't every dude desire see his wife as sexual as possible or completely sexually satisified ( no matter what it takes get it done..women,dudes, tech toys,3 ways,etc). Lets be honest..most guys love their wives and wanna stay monogamous. Yet they'd love to see their wives fucked with a big dick or eaten by another woman. And if you remove the humilation/ femdom factor....isnt this just every vanilla couple or those that swing?( no offense to swingers). But if you break off a piece of this or that and now label it as something new.. Is it really? It might be like saying something like... into femdom but only licking shoes..on a tuesday..if the mood catches right..and it doesn't rain So lets it hotbootblacking... Have you run into new terminology? |
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Hell, people make up new terms for 2 simple genders, so I wouldn’t be surprised when other terms creep into the lexicon! 😁
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I am permanently being told by younger people that language is a living thing that changes with the generations. I guess this is just part of the process. Thank heavens for the internet where someone usually explains the new terms and the TLAs (Three Letter Acronyms) that keep cropping up.
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Hell, people make up new terms for 2 simple genders, so I wouldn’t be surprised when other terms creep into the lexicon! 😁
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Well i was gonna bring up the expanded definition of the various genders. But i think there is a big difference between defining one's gender and a fetish. One is legally and socially accepted...the other could just be a term you generated for what you like in the bedroom. Im just saying when you rip away various elements of a fetish is it still a fetish.. Or is it simply something most vanilla couples want,desire or actual do. Wanting to watch your wife get fucked is pretty universally desired. So is it still a fetish? And does stripping away the outer layer of a old fetish and giving it a new paint job mean it's still kinky.
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And lets be real alot of times people create terms because there are none that fit their situation. So im cool with various legal terms for gender and have no problem w whatever bathroom you wanna use. But in terms of lifestyle you can't just take an existing concept and jetison what you dont like. Because there comes that time when it stops being kink. It stops being even a fetish. It simply become vanilla. Saying something like..wow id love to fuck the neighbor's hot wife is neither lifestyle nor a fetish. It's pretty universal..all guys wanna bang the hott wife nextdoor. Putting a new term to it like...bangingthehottneighbor doesnt make it kink.
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I am also meet some couple in my sexual life . they like bi-sexual also.. lot of discuss and play safe ... they like to try all fun... nice memory ...
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I am permanently being told by younger people that language is a living thing that changes with the generations. I guess this is just part of the process. Thank heavens for the internet where someone usually explains the new terms and the TLAs (Three Letter Acronyms) that keep cropping up.
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