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likesmatures 55M
7128 posts
11/13/2020 5:05 am
Your honest thoughts on transexuals/people in transition..are they sexy


This is an honest question....do you find those in transition sexy?

I ask this because in 2020 we are still bombarded with the notion that transexuals esp mtf have be " passable"
or get the caityln jenner fem. Plastic surgery appear more feminine..like in the face..

be accepted or even found sexy.

I ask this because the media is<b> obsessed </font></b>with beauty pagent stories..you know the ones where a transgendered person actually wins...but looks exactly like a ( whats the term) organically birthed female?..
Why can't they win without all the bs plastic surgery?

Im very bi and yes ive always been attracted to those in the lgbtq? Community..

And no someone doesnt have to be passable...

Oddly i have no interest/ attraction to say cross dressing men/ women.

I think for me alot of the attraction is about the hormones they take and not is what's between their legs.

I prefer seeing a woman with a penis and a man with a vag

likesmatures 55M
4867 posts
11/13/2020 5:06 am


IMC58 66F

11/13/2020 6:24 am

Many transgender people are sad. Some in a brave and happy sort of way, because they don't want to let show how they really feel.

The suicide rate among TG is extremely high for a reason. They tried to live a life that did not reflect who they really are and the decision to transition is associated with lots of risks, that 'normal'(for lack of a better word) folks never have to take.

Some try almost their whole life to remain in the role, everyone around them knows them as. Until they reach a point in their life, where they cannot pretend anymore.
My brother in law was 60, when he decided to start her transition. Of course, by that age, the masculine features are set, and it gets harder to 'pass' as a woman.

It sometimes seems to me, that we as society tend to accept only those, who look gorgeous and sexy measured by normal terms. And if we perceive the person as a man, trying to look like a woman, we place them in the freak corner.

And we often overlook, that a TGs life evolves around everything our lives evolve around. It angers me, when we first and foremost see them as sexual subjects.

To me, perceiving someone as sexy, has to do with the whole person. And I dont give a rats ass if I am able to tell that they are in transition. I either consider someone sexy or not.

There are a lot of drop dead gorgeous people I know, that I would never consider sexy, because of features beyond just looks.

Be yourself, noone else can be you.

IMC58


likesmatures replies on 11/13/2020 9:43 am:
Wellbsaid😁

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
11/13/2020 10:27 am

The pretty ones always win the pagent and the media always favours the attractive regardless of how you identify.
Sadly that wont change anytime soon.
Also i think sexy isn't about how someone looks. Sexy is more about who you are and how you come across.

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


LyvEn4payne 71M

11/14/2020 3:47 pm

I never think of them.



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