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Who knew you were interested? The fun of dealing with women See below |
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It's just been my experience that men are just more straight forward with their interests in me... Hell i'm even okay with a dick pic or i want to fuck you reply...( atleast i can understand that without having to second quess myself). With women? I always feel like im walking on egg shells.. Case and point...Domme x... I wrote to her saying i thought i really needed a good dicking and am ready to start looking again for a Domme or boyfriend. For 4 plus months she has expressed no interest in me and doesnt really address certain portions of my emails..like when i write i ran 4 miles at the gym and getting a tighter body. So i just assumed she enjoys my letters..that we are just friends Then she wrote the goodbye letter,good luck in my search for the perfect Dominant etc..and this is the part where she should say goodbye So..okay??? Completely confused now...that is the sorta response one would expect from someone interested..and not a friend. So i asked her point blank if she had any interest.. If not..it's cool..we can still write/ be friends.. And 2 days later and no response. The odd thing with Women and me is it doesnt have to to be sexual,doesnt have to involve a relationship, love, etc.. It literally could consist of hey you really enjoy beating on someone. I enjoy exploring pain. Here is a good oppertunity for us both to explore. I honestly don't think you could have this sorta bdsm relation with a guy and have it be non sexual.
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There is one important word in your text and it is "assumed". Guys assume a lot of things when dealing with a girl. She may not want to hurt your ego (yes even dommes can have that) and just give some generic responses, or she has certain interests, that she looks for (yes it could be even money) and doesn't just say after the first contact, sorry but I'm not interested. After 4 months she finally decided that it will never lead anywhere and is nothing more than an online fan of her, which she has probably several 100 more. So she tells you good luck on your further search and you get confused, because you assumed there was something, which for her almost certainly wasn't. Women are still not used to tell a guy to fuck off and it's considered very bad karma to do so by many. It's not something that just changes in a matter of a few years, it requires much more time to change. And you know, online may be mostly safe to react like that, but in real life you better don't tell some guys that you are not interested or they take it VERY personally.
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Shes 63.. i doubt she literally is leading men on
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I doubt she is leading on anyone either. But there is a very broad scale of nuances between being really interested, hoping it could develop into something, keeping on a conversation because there isn’t anything better to do at the moment and literally leading on people just for the sake of it. Chances are it is most times somewhere in the middle of that scale.
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