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likesmatures 55M
7123 posts
9/22/2021 4:40 am
Her orgasm...putting the main focus on getting hers..esp as one gets older

See below

likesmatures 55M
4843 posts
9/22/2021 5:10 am

 One cool thing about my ex Domme is she stressed that alot of older women dont want penetration anymore. She certainly didnt want any but still enjoyed getting oral.

And seeing how many men struggle with ED..

Not that i have any problem in that department ..God at times its like my cock is 18 again.

But it seems like the natural progression for a couple as they age is to shift their focus from theirs to her orgasms.

He basically trading in his cock for a tounge..

And his orgasm/ pleasure comes from getting her off ,multiple times.

This concept of restricting his and focusing soley on hers...is very appealing to me and was almost a reality..

But i also like that it seems very natural.

I'm not suggesting he doesnt get " any"...

But nature sorta stacked the deck..women are designed to have multiples..men get 1..maybe 2 turns on the ferri wheel if they are lucky..

So why not shift the focus from his/ theirs to mostly hers...and why is this viewed as femdom?

It seem very natural..a guy is best when he's kept horny


likesmatures 55M
4843 posts
9/22/2021 5:51 am

 And duh...ofcourse I'm a sub male..so oral service appeals to me..lol.

But I'm taking this post outside of the bdsm sandbox and applying the question to regular nilla life.

Ladies could you roll with this concept...just getting yours..the focus shifted on you and your sexual pleasure


subjim63 60M
415 posts
9/22/2021 5:58 am

 couldn't agree more. I have been cursed with medicine induced ED for 15 years. which means I haven't had successful penetrative sex in 15 years. that doesn't mean I haven't had sex. It just means I have had to modify my definition of sex. now for me it is defined by how many times I can make my partner orgasm. When my Mistress/Wife was alive that was my only focus and she was very satisfied. Since her death in dec 2019 I have been with a woman twice. Both times she told me I made her cum more times than she has ever before. I know its true because of the way she is always wanting to get together with me. make her the focus and you will always succeed.



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