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likesmatures 55M
7137 posts
1/6/2023 4:06 am
Skipping over the important part of an emai


See below

likesmatures 55M
4851 posts
1/6/2023 4:16 am

Just curious if you ever held multiple email sessions with someone...

And they seem to ignore or hurdle a difficult question asked directly in an email..

It's akin to talking to your mom about sports,weather,the garden...and then saying..hey I'm gay...
And she acting like she didn't hear that part..

And continues talking about those darn bunnies in her garden...

Fyi..this conversation never happened..it's an example..
And i love the bunnies in our backyard...

But you get my drift...

I told that one Domme that I think I really need to embrace being a bottom...
Which doesnt mean wanting to cross dress,become a woman or whatever

I mean I literally need to get deeper into anal play.

Which shouldnt be a shock..she list that she's into anal play,knows I like guys,am a bottom..

But just sorta ignored or didn't mention/ validate this need in her reply..

So i feel like im back on the fence not knowing if this is something that interest her or do I need to look elsewhere.


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
1/6/2023 5:03 am

She may have been busy with other things at that moment too. Knowing there is a grocery list that needs to be taken care of, the doctors appointment that needs to be scheduled. Her kid who asked her 5 minutes ago if she may do a sleepover with her schoolfriend, etc. etc.

Of course she may also just answer your mails to not be impolite but doesn't really feel anymore interested in more. You never know and email always is a difficult medium. It allows on one side to think about your answer before you send it off, to proofread it and even throw it away if you decide it's better not to send it. But it is also very limited, for one because it is very slow and second you can't see or hear the reactions of the other immediately. Once you get that reaction, there has been hours or even days since the cause happened. And the little initial irritation may have turned into a huge sore spot, and the memories about what led to these irritations are colored on both sides.

And while a good dom or domme will listen to a subs desires and needs, it's not like you have a right to come with a shopping list of things you want fulfilled. If you want to do that, you need to go to a professional domme.



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