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likesmatures 55M
7135 posts
1/21/2023 4:52 pm
Throwing out the baby w the bathwater..and apparently I'm gay


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likesmatures 55M
4874 posts
1/21/2023 5:10 pm

Soooo yeah...

I blogged before about my problems w 3 separate Dommes within a 3 year span...

And it was...wash,rinse,repeat...

All 3 women could have been carbon copies of one another..

But I never officially wanted to break it off with number 3..

And yes I was tempted to play with gay Doms..

But didnt...

And we've played this odd emailing dance for over a year..while only actually playing twice..

So while I was at the dealership today for an oil change I get this " dear john" letter from her.
I asked if she really was into objectification...whether in real life or fiction.

I asked this because I need to be motivated to write.. I need to know the other person is into it,getting turned on, etc..

And the letter basically went on this long spiel about how I most likely would be better off with a dude..
How I should just admit that I'm bi or gay..

Huh? Not sure how bad her memmory is...
I stated multiple times that I am attracted to gay tops and Dommes..
To me they are the only ones attracted to/ interested in a male bottom...

So yeah I like guys..but Dommes are very similar

But at least the letter gives me an out...without looking or feeling like a dick...I don't have to be the bad guy

And It's not like we both didn't see this coming.

I said multiple times that I can't be a boyfriend sub..

I'm a slave...I feel there is a huge difference between how a slave is treated and how a boyfriend/ slave is treated..

Sooo yeah...but it is for the best...I can still be friends while moving onto guys



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