Blog : ? Deep down aren't we all tecnically sadist..and is that a bad thing?

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2/4/2023 8:28 am

? Deep down aren't we all tecnically sadist..and is that a bad thing?

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4874 posts
2/4/2023 8:56 am

I have come across ALOT of Dominants..esp Dommes that list themselves as " gentle Dommes" or sensual Dommes,etc..

They really have no interest or have to be highly motivated to engage in something so basic as discipline.

They certainly would never label themselves as..

Sadist..

But is it a bad word?

Deep down aren't we all sadist...even sensual Dommes..

Sure they might not enjoy picking up a whip persay..

But we have been classically conditioned that certain people..er men... are " evil"..they deserve to be hurt.
And we get a lot of pleasure from watching the hero..esp if it is a female hero...

Punching,flipping,beating the tar out of these men.

We especially get a thrill out of seeing the bad men getting kicked in their testicles.

Now apply this conditioning to the lifestyle..

we all run over to see the fluff bunny 20 yr old female slave coo and giggle while being disciplined at a play party.

But equally so many would run over to watch a Domme demoing harsh cbt on her male slave.
Men and women would watch with fascination and enjoyment...
Drinking in males' predicament/ reaction/ pain.

So what's the real difference between enjoying watching and doing it yourself...is it the fear factor..
Are you afraid you will hurt him?
And what if he gets off of being hurt?

If I was the male slave I'd want to breech that 4th wall and allow women to experience kicking a man there.

It really isn't omg taboo..and you both can work on conditioning yourselves for this style of play..

It's not a harsh as they make it out to be..

My point is we all luv seeing Jennifer Lawrence kick a bad " guy"...

We all would watch a ball kicking demo at say a convention..

We admit that we enjoy it..maybe even turned on by it..

Yet we are shy? To actually do it in our daily lives?

And I wonder why..

We are sadist...even if we don't use that label

And is that really a bad thing...

You can label yourself what you want...

But if your enjoying seeing a slave being shocked..

Then why wouldn't you enjoy shocking your own male.

Better question.. if that Domme at the convention opened up the floor to any woman that would like to kick her slave..
Would you take her up on the opportunity?
And guys..would you cheer her on..
Knowing that she may like it and that could be you in the future..


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