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Do you believe the lifestyle is too sexual..or not sexual enough..let's talk See below |
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I ask this question because of a ,members reply to one of my previous blogs.. The one about the dick pics.. He replied alt is a sex site and he actually got more responses when he used a dick pic.. And it's easy to act all posh and just brush him off.. But does he have a point...? Should alt be more sexually orientated? On this blog I like to explore and do welcome different strands of thought/ opinions. So I thought I'd ask for your opinion on this topic.. My thoughts: I've honestly had more playtime..more sexual romps with people not formally associated with the local bdsm community..than in them. But with that said..kc bdsm community seems very mom and pops/ people married/ already in couples. So it's hard to meet singles. Your experiences may be totally different And no I'm not against sex... And I often wondered why these people would be so openly sexual with a complete stranger..a submale they met online.. But duh..I am your boy But yeah...not a brag...but when your a bi/ gay sub that just happens to like bbw/ bhm/ couples.. I found myself sexually with more combos than a packet of Skittles. I have a higher total because I also bottom and I consider strap on As sex.. And yeah big black lesbians enjoyed pounding my cute white ads. Not a brag...it's just the lesbians she was trying to meet didn't like the concept of a woman with a dick. She wanted to fuck.. And turned to men.. Who obviously had nooo problem with it.. So it was all good...lol.. the only problem though is she literally just wanted to fuck and didn't want to be touched by a guy.. Duh..she's a lesbian So I don't knock being sexual during bdsm.. But I'm also a male submissive... And I'm guessing Dommes/ female subs have different thoughts on the matter.. Personally I don't need to be sexual in a bdsm relationship. I could enjoy just being with a strict authority type Dominant/ couple.. And just because I'm not being sexual.. Doesn't limit the Dominants sexuality.. He/ she could enjoy me sexually...use me to fulfill his/ her/ their needs.. But even in the most basic bdsm scenario where there is no sex...say at a playparty/ a non sexual Dommr.a male sub will always be groped,his body played with,his cock toyed with/ jerked.. So long story short....does bdsm need to be more sexual?, I'm gonna say no...it is usually woven into the fabric of play.. esp for a male sub.. I can't speak for the ladies.. But I had more Dominants grab my cock and...without a second thought...put fingers into me ..than I can count.. Fingers,toys,strap ons etc... And for me..it's a part of play
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My view is that dick pics are universally panned by women. But why?? Ask any guy if he would object to a coochie pic. The question I have here is who are these responses from? I would warrant from gay/bi men. So from the viewpoint of a cis male - zero responses.
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