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Why there aren't any good men? Your honest thoughts See below |
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Tick tok is literally filled with women over 30 having running commentaries on..why they can't find a good man? So I thought I would take a moment and break it down. The answer is simple..yet complex. In short,part of the problem is you..like the Kardashians.. are past 30. But women assume this has to do with age or their body or even " body count"/ amount of guys you slept with. Yet in reality older men go after younger women because of your baggage.. Yeah I said it. Your mental and emotional baggage. Women over 30 not only are usually divorced.. They also come with kids.. To a single man that is like rolling up to a Starbucks and ordering a cup of coffee.. And then being guilted into paying for the person behind you that ordered for the whole office.. Oh hell nah..I didn't sign up for that.. If I commit to that in any form I literally could be forced to pay child support.. Any man that steps up in a fatherly role can be made to pay for another man's kids ( welcome to the American judicial system).. So sorry but women with kids...are off the list Second.. All these women/ all women to a certain extent go after the same guy/ same type of guy. Don't believe me? Jump on tinder and you'll see all the women are trying to date 1 percent of the men. It's so bad that tinder is telling their male customers to pay 500 dollars to secretly be put into this 1 percent category..to prove they are really " kings". The problem with sites like tinder is you create " chad"... The guy that has his pick of women,never is serious and will never commit. And despite treating the women like crap The women still want chad.. And it never stops..not even after 30. The problem with baggage and the modern man is easy to see. On one hand you have women who spent their 20s at bars,turning away good men..in hopes of finding,dating,marrying chad..aka Prince charming...their king.. And assume this guy is gonna turn them into a queen?? That he is gonna commit?? Child please...chad is only interested in chad. The lower you are the higher he is.. 10 yrs later and women's power decreases as they age and chad..only grows in power He still has the 6 ft height..he still has the gym bod,he still has the good job. He is wanted now both by women his age but the 20 something crowd too Yet Women at 30 still want chad...are still chasing that 1 percent guy. All the while 30 yr women double play nice guys that aren't chad.. Not only are you still using this unattainable measure of a man you still want.. But you now incorporate all your bad dealings,relationships of the past.. So it's like a woman's shields are always up..and every guy not chad is sus. And a normal nice guy has to now double jump through hoops to just prove he may be worthy of a date. My point is simple...It's not your age,it's not your body size..It's that past relationship baggage that you now use to grade out men.. There are no " good men" because you define good as that 6 ft tall dude,with $$$,professional,big house,flashy car etc.. And that dude...isn't interested in 30 yr old women..isn't interested in your damage..isn't interested in a relationship when he can still literally sleep with 20 yr old women.. Why buy the cow? And the guys that you turned down in the bar when you were 20.. Now are 30.. And no longer simp... Where are all the good men? They decided maybe it's just better to pull off the road and just enjoy life.. Women have to really understand Your not something men need to have in their lives to be happy.. Men need women like a fish needs a bicycle At times women act like they are some rare commodity.. And need to stop the cap..your not queens. It really is that simple.. Some women have an inflated value of themselves and reflect this in their choice of men.. But it's hard to eat lobster when your on a Mac and cheese budget That is why you can't find a good man..more or less one to commit. You still want Prince charming and burned out the pack of would be knights
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And this isn't me being frustrated.. This is me being real. How can you want someone that really is unattainable. And now at 30 your making tik tok vids of where have all the good men gone? Kinda ironic if a dude says the same thing he is listed as an incel,a woman hater,probably lives in his mommas basement.. Imagine men at 30 sipping wine,crying and hopping on social media and demanding to know where all the good women are??
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You're such a funny man, This writing is sooo full of assumptions, about age, and also a view from the vanilla way, or the vanilla behaviour of some women.... I would not know, where to start.. giving an reaction. Have a nice evening, day... night, week... 
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Please elaborate... I was talking from a man's pov
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