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likesmatures 55M
7131 posts
4/13/2024 5:39 am
The beginning of the soft men era


Now I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea..

Nor have I drunk the koolaid..

But I do appreciate the humor found in these.." soft guy era" vids on tiktok..

It basically is men outright mirroring the outrageous demands women put on men in the dating world.

Such as he must be 6 foot tall and make six figures..

The men fire right back with..

They have entered their " soft men phase " and realise they deserve better..they are top shelf men...they now will only date women 5'9 and up that make 6 figures,etc..
Now add on ridiculous requirements like..

One dude went to his cabinets and pulled out his skin care routine...claiming he was a high value man and any woman that wishes to date him now must pay for...his hair,his lotions,etc.

( basically parodying women found in other tiktok vids that demand men pay for their hair,their nails, their grooming products just to go out on a date.

I bring up the soft guy era because I do believe some of this has bleed over into the lifestyle..

My ex Domme is the perfect example of an independant boss woman that doesn't need no man..

To which I am not mocking..

But unfortunately this lifestyle,this boss girl attitude lead to a lot of isolation..not wanting help,not wanting someone in their bed.

This attitude also leads to the person being super picky and inflating their own self worth..

Basically demanding such a " super" man....that no man could fill the role...not even a chad like your boy

In her case..your 68 yrs old...I think if prince charming was coming down the road,he'd be here by now

I'm not bitter..I'm trying to make the point...

That soft women,soft men do exist...and aren't a parody.

It is a fact that on dating sites like bumble, 90 perhumble, women go after 10 percent of the men.

And I do believe this is also reflected in the lifestyle.

Anyway to wrap this up..

There are grains of truth in these soft guy era parodies...

Like no person is worth simping over
Appreciate your own self worth
And focus on you..build your empire

likesmatures 55M
4828 posts
4/13/2024 5:54 am

There is that old feminist saying...
Women need men like a fish needs a bicycle..

Well afraid to inform women that it swings both ways..

I'm single,happy, dont have to answer to no one, I have $$$, disposable income.
I can jump on a plane and just fly to vegas..

Can you?

Sex? Whenever,how ever,with any consenting adult..

.and as much as women claim they don't need men cause they have vibrators..

Er..have you seen male masturbatory toys of late...

There really is no reason to leave the house...( little joke there)..

But being real...the male adult toy game has arrived

Kings..be kings..save your money..

For the right woman.

It's okay for men to now be picky..

Soft women of tiktok would sign off with " sprinkle sprinkle"..

The soft men ??? Adopted...drizzle..drizzle


duobey 69M
71 posts
4/13/2024 6:47 am

men shoulder demands by choice


likesmatures 55M
4828 posts
4/13/2024 8:24 am

As the one soft guy asked

Why am I performing husband like duties

If I'm not your husband



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