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_freyja_ 54F
115 posts
3/13/2020 5:02 pm
A Micro Minute of Etiquette ~

It takes a lot for me to reach out first, to initiate contact. I was raised to never chase boys, never be the one to call them, that they should call you.

So in this day and age, i still struggle to reach out, i still hear my mother saying a "proper girl" gets chased, not the other way around.

So listen~ if i, or another slave/submissive, reaches out to You, a Master/Dom/Sir or whatever you are on the left side of the slash, please act with a little bit of kindness, dignity, maybe You could micro manage a itty bitty bit of warmth in the exchange.

If you accept a friend request, and she sends a message saying thank you for accepting, please, PLEASE don't respond with just a "Welcome". She has offered an opening to communicate.

Not interested? No big deal, SAY SO. Say you are "interviewing" several others, but don't be rude about it, there's this thing called "class" and etiquette.

Being a schmutz to someone who is trying to break out of conditioning really isn't the "Domly" thing to do. Be a friggin gentleman for crying out loud. It doesn't cost you a cent to be HUMAN!!!!

At least on Fet, there is decorum and an approach that isn't awkward and "cold". I guess that's the difference between real D types and pretenders~


_freyja_ 54F
98 posts
3/13/2020 5:13 pm

There is NEVER a time to be rude~ I don’t care how Micro Managing you are as a D-type~ there are many many layers to a true D-type. It’s not all rough and cold shoulder ... if you take yourself that seriously you will be alone for a very very long time~


_freyja_ 54F
98 posts
3/13/2020 5:14 pm

What’s wrong with a little kinky talk among like minded people? No one asked you to marry them~ bwahahahahahaha ~


Wayneneedsu57 66M

3/13/2020 6:04 pm

I agree with you one hundred percent. Hope you find the good ones and stay safe in this new world we are in right now.


Sicklad 54M
51 posts
3/13/2020 6:13 pm

Totally agree


DancingDom 74M
22602 posts
3/13/2020 6:33 pm

Good point. Hope you only get classy responses.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


olderdaddy_63 68M

3/14/2020 6:14 am

Very well put. Now if these schmutz's you speak of would listen...or just go away



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