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Why, why, why... ... do I stay here? This place is such a hot mess. For one thing, about half the time when I get a notification for a message, I go to my inbox and there's no message there. And yet that orange circle with a 1 in it is still there. I click on every type of message, but nothing. So then I'm left wondering what these people tried to say to me. If you don't pay, you can't read profiles, you can't initiate contact... you pretty much can't do squat. So, just for grins, every now and then, I buy a month of membership, just so I can read the profiles. It's interesting and fun, but not worth continuing to pay for. And speaking of profiles -- I have crafted mine very carefully and thoroughly. I try to make clear what I'm seeking. And most guys don't read it. Some of them say they did, but then they ask questions that let me know they didn't. And then I get things like "You must follow instructions and orders." Yeah. You must go pound sand, buddy. Read. The. Damn. Profile. And what's up with people who want to jump right into phone calls, meet-ups, etc.? I'm not giving you my phone number! If you can't take some time to talk to me via messages on here and tell me who you are, then you don't want to take the time to get to know me. Oh, and guys? Stop offering women your phone number or other personal information right off the bat. You have no idea who they are. Some of my gender are kinda batshit crazy too, you know? Just a friendly warning. A woman shouldn't have to go through so much aggravation just to get a spanking, FFS. So why DO I stay? Because. Every now and then, someone comes along and makes it all worth it. Every now and then, a diamond emerges out of the heaps of coal. Every now and then, I beat the odds and forge a connection. And the other sites like this one aren't any better. Looks like y'all are stuck with me. Who knows... maybe I'm about due to meet my dream spanker. |
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if spanking is all you want ty women they do a great job on my ass
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Hello so stay sift through the chaff or ashes and let the people you want to know emerge we all find one another in the end so please stay if the good ones all go we are seeds to the wind
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Hello EricaLScott, thank you for sharing this post, and expressing a very common frustration. If i may share a detail with you. You may already be aware of it, but, just in case.... There is something called an Icebreaker. Female profiles can create one, and set the preferences to default and if it's approved, a free gold membership will be yours. i don't know why it's for those with female profiles, only...at least when i got mine it was, but it's an option. Perhaps it will keep you around a bit longer. Good luck and be well.
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I can totally understand what you're going thru. It's only getting worse on here. Hang in there, you may find what you seek. I met my current sub on here about 8 years ago. We e-mail each other until we felt comfortable enough for phone conversations. She moved here from California and it's still working for us. Good luck in your quest.
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1/12/2024 8:25 pm |
Ah ALT.com it is what it is and sometimes what it is not
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Many bloggers, will set up a private blog and often one right along with it. It is a way to communicate with those you hope to find. You set the first one for private and approve of all post comments, which you never approve (thus it stays private). You also use the respond feature and not the comment in reply (which you don't have to do). Best to you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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You have written both an eloquent and intelligent profile as well as eloquent and intelligent post. Intelligence is far too rare around here, as are women with an ass as gorgeous as yours.  Unfortunately the natural law of the ALT universe applies to me in your case, i.e. The higher the compatibility level, the greater the distance between parties. Ugh! If we were within range, there is little I'd desire more than to spank that wonderful ass of yours."You must follow instructions and orders." As infuriating as this is to receive, the upside is that you know you're dealing with an idiot right away .... No pretenses of being anything but an industrial strength ass. You've hit the nail right on the head about this site - It is as screwed up as possible. If you don't fill their coffers, finding the site useful is seemingly impossible. As my partner indicates, were we closer I would love to light up that amazing ass of yours! Is there anything better than hand spanking a beautiful ass? I think not .....  Make Women Female Again
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Hm...what did you expect?! these sites are all the same w the same games being played! learn to work the site w o paying & shift thru the weeds...it takes time to find a meaningful connection w someone that is real sincere here!
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STILL amazes me that people DON'T read profiles and but 'view' the profile and send 'flirts' or hotlist you and have never read the profile!!!! But here's a question, EricaLScott, I'm a non-paying member that earns 'points' to contact those I find 'interesting', so I can't read everyone's profile, only those I become the 'Top Fan'. You've got 9 fans and your 'Top Fan' bid 200 points to get there. I'd bid over 200 to be your Top Fan, if you weren't over 2200 miles away, but I'm not wasting points on someone so far away that I'll never meet, didn't REALLY think you were 89...LOL!
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Yes, this site is frustrating. I've had the same thing, with it telling me I've got messages, but they are nowhere to be found! Some of those men who have said they have read your blog. If they are non paying members, they may mean, they have read the bit they can see. They may not be able to read much of what you have said about yourself. If they have points they can contact you, but the only way they can find out more about you, what you are seeking, is to ask questions. Of course they may just be dicks! DancingDom has mentioned setting up a blog for contact purposes. You might want to mention, "see my blog" in your status bar. You may get more 'dicks' to deal with, but if you don't you might miss your "Dream Spanker".
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EricaLScott replies on 1/13/2024 3:06 pm: 'You're right; I'm not 89. (laughing) I didn't know about that Top Fan trick.' Beware of ONE thing, EricaLScott if you decide to use points to become 'Top Fan' of someone you wish to converse with, if their profile is 'Hidden' when you become "Top Fan' you'll be unable to reach them and you'll essentially lose the 50 points (minimum bid), or whatever you bid to become thier 'Top Fan', have it happen to me several times. That, and profiles that are OLD and the member hasn't been active in over 3 months or more...sucks that this site doen't PURGE those OLD profiles that people aren't using...
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