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In the mind of a submissive Each of us are different and unique with our own limits, wants, and desires. I struggle sometimes discern my desires from my desire please. I was told by some that service means giving of oneself regardless of your interest or desire for that person. In fact one Master told me my wanting to know the man before I commit was unacceptable. I can not fathom how one can have any foundation in which to serve and give oneself when there isn't understanding and trust. It cheats both the Dom/Master and the submissive/slave of that opportunity to connect on the deepest levels. When you are merely a possession and not a special piece of property. Naive as I am, I tried to discuss this and make sense of a differing point of view. In response I was told my thoughts, insights, and comments were meaningless, unneeded, and irrelevant. To demean someone to that level....is truly sad. Everyone has meaning or why possess them at . Each person in his or her role should be counted as something and someone or the person himself or herself becomes meaningless, unneeded, and irrelevant. What kind of life would that be. |
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Wanting to know the man before I commit was unacceptable. I would consider that point of view unacceptable. Yeah. Turn 180 degrees and run. I was told my thoughts, insights, and comments were meaningless, unneeded, and irrelevant. While I am sure there are some chest beating, knuckle dragging Neanderthals who actually believe this, I'd consider it 110% BS. I've read some remarkably stupid things from some 'so called' Dominants, and this ranks right up there in the top 10. From the comments in your blog, you appear to have a solid understanding of the realities of interpersonal relationships. For my money, the relationship comes first and the BDSM portion comes second. Make Women Female Again
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I'm continually amazed by the actions of some. If you're so worthless, why does he want to possess you? Self worth is essential to self realization, even in (and especially in) a Ds relationship. Your physical beauty and your inner beauty are what make you attractive to others. If he wants what he says, give him a pine plank with a hole drilled in it.
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I would guess he has little use for safe words as well. He's no Dom, he's a dommy. 
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9/5/2020 8:57 pm |
True servitude & sense of self.
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He's just another of the clueless, blow hard, wannabes infecting this site. Kind of pathetic if you think about it, lol
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